Separation of a couple, a difficult situation for children

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Hello to all my friends I hope you are well, today I want to talk a little about the difficult situation of the separation of sentimental couples, and the most difficult thing we can notice is the situation of the children of this family that disintegrates, as a daughter I could live this difficult situation with the separation of my parents.

Living away from some of the two is not easy, I know I have not been the only one who has gone through this trauma at such a young age, I was only 6 years old when my parents separated, and that marked in me a hard experience at a young age, in my mind are some memories where I used to walk with my parents holding hands.

As adults we make decisions that affect our children, and as children we do not have the ability to express our disagreement with them, and if we do, it is impossible for them to stay together, whether we want to or not we have to live and grow up in such an uncomfortable way, in my case I had to live with my father, my mother lived far away from the city and because of my studies I had to stay next to my father.

As an adult and happily married, I feel the stability of my family, with my beautiful daughter Nicole, whom I love with all my life, my husband and my father who now lives next to me, all couples go through difficulties, yet we must know how to face the situation and overcome the differences.

Silence is one of the attitudes that most separates families, we have to maintain constant communication with our partner, our parents and children, there is nothing more beautiful in life than living in harmony, then I do not understand how we do not fight to always live like this, instead of fighting among ourselves, let's take care of the welfare of the family, and most importantly the welfare of children.

A big hug to all, let's choose the path of family understanding, the world needs happy families, let's be one of them.



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You're very correct! Everything you've said here is true and most times I ask myself why these parents who feel they should separate don't consider the emotional and mental impact of that separation on their children. Kids really feel it when things aren't right between their parents and it makes them loose focus.

Nice writing, really thoughtful and inspiring

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Hola amiga! Muchas gracias por tu comentario, muy acertado.

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