Hola amigos, espero estén bien, porque tenia mucho tiempo sin estar aquí compartiendo en Hive ya que tenia muchos compromisos, luego me quede sin Internet, aunque el problemas esta aun, siempre estoy solucionando, esperando que todo este bien con ustedes. En esta publicación les hablaré de mi experiencia con mi hija y como ha sido el desafío de llevarla por el buen camino ya que no es fácil para los niños y muchos menos para las madres, porque a pesar de contar con el apoyo de todos, especialmente de su padre esto ha sido muy difícil, mas ahora lejos y sin ayuda, pero ya mi hija esta más grande, pero agradezco mi residencia y amor por lo que hago en la vida, porque quienes no saben, estoy criando a mi hija junto con mi esposo, es un trabajo en equipo y me gusta mucho.

Tener que criar una niña es algo retador para mi, aunque siento que el niño es más fácil, pero todo tiene su grado de dificultad, también de interés, pero criar a mi hija ha sido una batalla y mas sola, pero es una niña que hace caso y me gusta poder sentirme orgullosa del ser humano que estoy creando. Siempre se ha hablado de las niñas y se dice que son más terribles, pero la mía acapara todo porque es una niña a todo dar. En cuanto a su desarrollo puedo decirles que come demas y le gustan las frutas, es decir que en eso no tengo problemas ya que no es mala boca como dice mi madre, en la escuela ca bien y ha tenido méritos, pero hay veces que se afloja, en ese sentido en donde más me ha pegado ya que mi tiempo es reducido y no tengo el conocimiento suficiente para transmitir a mi hija, solo lo que aprendí en mi bachillerato y eso es defiende, pero cuando no se algo siempre recurro a mis padres o mi hermana Natha que me ayuda.

Mi hija ha pasado por muchos cambios, los cuales no le han afectado tanto, pero si los conoce, entonces siempre le estoy hablando para que ella sepa las cosas, me gusta hablarle claro, para evitar confusiones, también se ha puesto algo rebelde, pero en eso estamos trabajando sj padre y yo. Muchas veces me cuestiono mi maternidad, pero se que voy bien ya que no existe manual para saber como es criar, lo poco que he vivido es suficiente para entender muchas cosas, ademas cuando me preguntan por un segundo hijo siempre digo que no ya que al estar lejos es más difícil, y nuestro trabajo es nuestro sustento.

Hello friends, I hope you are well, because I had a long time without being here sharing in Hive since I had many commitments, then I was without Internet, although the problem is still, I am always solving, hoping that everything is well with you. In this publication I will talk about my experience with my daughter and how has been the challenge of taking her on the right path, because it is not easy for children and much less for mothers, because despite having the support of all, especially her father this has been very difficult, but now far away and without help, but now my daughter is older, but I appreciate my residence and love for what I do in life, because who do not know, I am raising my daughter along with my husband, it is a team effort and I like it a lot.


Having to raise a girl is something challenging for me, although I feel that the boy is easier, but everything has its degree of difficulty, also of interest, but raising my daughter has been a battle and more alone, but she is a girl who listens and I like to be proud of the human being that I am creating. It has always been said about girls that they are more terrible, but mine hogs everything because she is a girl to the fullest. As for her development I can tell you that she eats too much and likes fruits, that is to say that in that I have no problems since she is not bad mouth as my mother says, in school she does well and has had merits, but there are times when she slackens, in that sense where it has hit me the most since my time is reduced and I do not have enough knowledge to transmit to my daughter, only what I learned in my high school and that is defends me, but when I do not know something I always turn to my parents or my sister Natha who helps me. 


My daughter has gone through many changes, which have not affected her so much, but she knows them, so I am always talking to her so she knows things, I like to talk to her clearly, to avoid confusion, she has also become somewhat rebellious, but that is what my father and I are working on. Many times I question my motherhood, but I know I am doing well because there is no manual to know how to raise a child, the little I have lived is enough to understand many things, also when I am asked about a second child I always say no because being far away is more difficult, and our work is our livelihood.

Mi hija me ha enseñado lo que es ser madre

Being a mother is a very big task and when we do not have a manual is heavier, but we have a family that always supports in the process, for me everything has been bearable because my daughter is everything, not everything is perfect but we know that we are on the perfect path, always grateful for everything I have achieved with her, that person who took over my being with only 23 years old, an age that I did not expect but that came at the right time. Being a mother is the best but exhausting, it is also a job for life but I do not change for anything my life and my little girl, I am always grateful to have her, also to my family that has always been guiding me on the right path, raising a female is difficult, but when we do things with love it becomes more relaxed.


Some time ago I thought that I would feel it when I was older and today it is a fact since she is about to turn 9 years old and I feel that time has passed so fast, that I don't even realize how much she is growing, although she is very tremendous she is my beloved black girl, the one who always has an answer for everything because that's why she can be looked for. During these years things have been improving and so has my upbringing, although sometimes I do tell her things because she is very passive and always on the defensive, I hope that if God sends me another child it will be a female because I have kept this experience deep inside me.

Thank you for being part of this nice surprise for me, I hope the days are eternal to have you more time. See you friends, thanks for reading my publication, I always like to express what I feel. 

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Translator Deelp