Taking Your Relationship For Granted Is An Invitation For Separation

Hello everyone and welcome to my blog at this hour. It is quite alarming how relationships are breaking nowadays with young couples ending their relationship abruptly after spending few years or in worst scenarios months together. I saw a post on social media about a couple that did their wedding ceremony in grand style about two years ago and unfortunately they have divorced after having difficulties in understanding each other. It is important to note that most broken relationships have been having signs of end time but either of the couples paid little or no attention to it. Well, sit back, relax and enjoy all that I have packaged for your reading pleasure.

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In a relationship, the build up of certain issues between the two partners that are left unaddressed often lead to the collapse of the union. Perhaps, you feel like you are not getting as much attention that you deserve from your partner due to the constant unavailability of your partner to your emotional, physical, financial or sexual needs. Or you are fed up of always begging for your partner's attention all the time and you're feeling rejected and lonely. These feelings may give rise to issues in relationship that eventually make it to crash. The best feeling in a marriage is for each partner to be cared for and treated with all the respect that they deserve.

Once a relationship has got to the stage where one partner takes the other for granted, it may lead to series of issues that will cause each of them to go their separate ways. This often happens when either of the partners feel too comfortable in the relationship because they know that their partner will always be with them forever, no matter how they are being treated. The lack of threat in relationships makes one partner to neglect the other and care less about the needs and desires of the other. The longer couples live together, it is possible for them to withdraw attention to the needs of their partner.

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It will be painful, depressing and difficult to see that your partner that cares about your well-being at the initial stage of your marriage no longer do all he use to do anymore. I remember a discussion with some of my friends about relationship and marriage. It is common for men to chase a woman with their last cash, enticing and pleasing her with gifts, treats to the movies, restaurants, beach and so on at the infancy stage of the relationship. But all these romantic gestures stops or reduce once they have got the attention of the girl. Most men can relate to this. However, in order to sustain your relationship you must be able to keep up giving your partner all the attention they deserve in this world.

All contents are originally written by me, @williams-owb

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Williams Oluseyi is a Linguist by discipline from one Africa's Most Prestigious Citadel of Learning, Obafemi Awolowo University. He developed interest for blogging at very early stage which motivated him to study English Language in College. He is a prolific writer, an inquisitive and judicious reader, to say the least. To get his daily bread, he is currently working in a Logistics company in Nigeria.

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