[ESP/ENG] Cosas que no debes decir a una mujer embaradaza 🤫🙅🏻‍♀️🤰🏻

Good afternoon my dear readers, welcome once again to my blog.

Today I want to share with you a very important topic, which is rarely read and rarely taken into consideration before issuing a comment. It is well known that when a woman is pregnant she is very vulnerable, she faces many noticeable changes and others not.

There are many doubts, fears and uncertainty about what is happening and what is about to happen and that is not enough, there are people who make comments that do not help.

When I suspected that I was pregnant for the first time, I went for an ultrasound to clear my doubts and the doctor who attended me was a doctor, I remember that in the middle of the ultrasound after confirming that I was pregnant, she told me, "at this moment it is only blood and there are many women who are not able to get pregnant, we still have to wait for a heart rhythm ", like any first-time woman I kept thinking about what she said.

It took me about two months with that doubt, I was afraid of everything, I wanted my baby girl to grow up safe and sound, negative thoughts came to me, every time I went to the bathroom I was careful not to have bleeding and I read a lot about those things. One day I told my mother-in-law about it and she told me that I should not think like that, that I should keep those thoughts away from me, that my baby was fine, that talk really helped me a lot, I started to do my part and I managed to free myself from those thoughts.

Thank God I did not have any problems with my pregnancy, that taught me how delicate certain comments can be for a pregnant woman.

So when we see a woman going through this stage, do not tell her that she is fat or skinny, because she already knows it, much less those comments about the loss of the baby, enough with the constant fear that she is facing because of all the new things she is experiencing, do not compare her pregnancy with others, do not underestimate her discomfort, she is not exaggerated, only a pregnant woman knows what she feels.

It is sad because we often receive these criticisms from other women, sometimes we forget our own experiences.

It is better to provide comments such as "I understand what you are going through, but don't worry, you will soon get through this stage", "the discomfort is temporary", "you will have a beautiful, healthy and strong baby", "you are very brave and admirable".
Let's give positive comments, which do not cost us anything, but are worth a lot to those who receive them.

During this stage, women are very sensitive and any comment made to us, positive or negative, will greatly influence our mood, the way we carry the pregnancy, our day to day, our mood, things that end up affecting our baby.

Let's help in the best way, let's influence in a positive way, this is a very delicate stage, the tranquility of a pregnant mother is so important that it should not be taken lightly.

This has been my contribution of the day. Thanks for visiting my blog and reading my content. Rain of blessings 🙏 See you later. 😊

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