This life is full of pains that we do not envisage, but along the line some pains will come in which we won't be able to cope with, and I believe this is life, and life itself is made of some challenges that we sometimes do not understand at some point. We try as much as possible to cope with this stress and pain, but we find out that they are beyond our control. This is when the pain has gotten so profound that it has reached a point in our lives where we can't hold it again.

Why do we feel pain?

In a simple way, I believe pain is mutual and gives us some warning signals. Pain is also a complex sensation we get that serves as a guide to save and protect our bodies from unforeseen incidences. Pain helps us stay alert against other occurrences because, when we feel that pain, we do not let loose our guard to allow what has harmed us to come back into our lives again.

We feel pain because it is a way we express our heartfelt distress about something we do not feel comfortable with. Pain has a way of showing us a lesson that we never planned for and some of these pains are caused by our negligence, aside from the ones that come naturally from what nature holds, like the demise of our loved ones, accidents, and lots more.

These are beyond us, and we just have to feel these pains because they are mutual, but when it gets too much for us and we can't hold them, they cause mental disorders in us, which may affect our daily lives. I have experienced what it means to be hurt and feel pain, and I never want to feel it again because life can become so mysterious for someone at that point, and one would think about a lot in their head.

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I had a friend currently at my university, and back then he was doing fine in school and things were going well, but not until he lost his dad and things became so hard for him to cope with. Most of his life became so deserted, and I was affected in one way or another because he is my friend. I had to fill some space for him because he couldn't concentrate on school or read for exams, which made his results lag.

I tried my best to persuade him, but it wasn't easy. He finds it so hard to pay the school fee and feed on a daily basis, which he has not been used to before now. At some point, he tries to give up on himself because he has no hope of getting support, and he is still tending to the university after staying for some time before getting admitted.

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With the help of God, he was able to distance himself from things and people that caused him emotional pain. Even his girlfriend, who was making his life miserable, had to move away from her so that he could have a sane life and be free from a daily pain. To cope with pains every day as you remember those things that cause pain to you will always make you say, and the best one could do is to try to hang around things and people who will make one happy and make us forget these pains.

One thing I believe is that the pain we face today is a way for us to learn lessons, and we should always ensure we get stronger and better by tomorrow. Pain teaches us to be strong and also to learn in one way othe the other. Pains are inevitable in the present life we are in, we just have to be strong and get our minds together to focus on the good things life has to offer.