This question undoubtedly tends to leave many thinking and others on autopilot answering that the most important things in their lives are; their parents, their children, their family, their work, God, any number of things, leaving aside what is really important, ourselves.

That's right, there should be nothing more important to us than ourselves, because without self-love, as cliché as it may sound, we cannot love anyone else.

Today, February 14, the day of love and friendship, most of the time we spend our strength and our savings to give tokens of love to someone else, when the real token of love should be to ourselves.

We always seek approval from others about our actions, our tastes, instead of doing things for ourselves.

To love ourselves, to feel good with our inner self, with our way of leading and seeing life, to take care not only of our body and our appearance but also of our mental health, to dedicate quality time with ourselves, where we can be able to be alone with ourselves, to listen to our thoughts without giving us the enormous desire to play music or listen to some noise to silence them, talk to ourselves, love ourselves and above all accept ourselves regardless of what people will say, that should be the most important thing in our lives, let's leave aside the opinions of others, what people will say, the fear of being judged and begin to live for and by ourselves.