[ENG/PT-BR] The good side of a scolding.
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Who has never thought it was bad to receive a scolding, whether from a specific family member of your mother or father, or from a close friend who really cares about you? I believe that we have all been through this situation and in particular, I believe even more that we are upset, nervous or sad about it, but have we ever reflected on the good side of being scolded? A tug of the ear about something we did or didn't do?
It may seem a little strange, but there is a good side to being called out for something that happened, because this could be exactly what we need to evolve as people or regain lost focus on a project or task we are doing. In my opinion, sometimes we need someone to shake our ideas, sharing what we are doing wrong so that we can correct this error or just to pay more attention to what we are doing.
Of course, if we are talking about a child or teenager, he probably won't accept any scolding, even if it is something constructive for him, so what remains for us is to be able to understand this after reaching the adult stage of life. Learning to separate malicious criticism from constructive ones is a good quality that we should learn, after all, not everyone wants our bad, so some people may actually be speaking for our good, to improve as people, here, a little of the positive thinking in relation to the feeling and connections we will have throughout life.
I don't need to describe in minute detail the situations in which I was charged for something, in which someone looked deep into my eyes and said those strict and serious words, but at the same time it also had a tone of concern and hope that I would improve. in what I was doing and it really worked, whether in family or professional relationships, this shock of reality, as we often say, is necessary to open our eyes to the situations we are facing or that we may encounter along the road of life.
So here's a reminder, that the famous mother's scolding does have a basis, just like our wife who talks too much or the husband who always wants to teach a moral lesson, maybe all of this is far from evil and is just a way of saying “I’m worried about you, so please improve on this.” I consider that I would be super happy to have someone worrying about me like this, so no matter how difficult it is, in these moments just be silent and listen to what your family member is telling you, the words of reprimand can just be a disguise for the words of love and concern he has for you.
Thank you very much to everyone who donated a little of their time to read. Until next time guys!
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Quem nunca achou ruim receber uma bronca, seja de algum familiar em específico da mãe ou do pai, ou de um amigo próximo que realmente se preocupa conosco? Acredito que todos nós já passamos por essa situação e em especial, acredito mais ainda que ficamos chateados, nervosos ou tristes com isso, mas, será que refletimos alguma vez o lado bom de levar uma bronca? Um puxão de orelha sobre alguma coisa que fizemos ou deixamos de fazer?
Pode parecer meio estranho, mas existe um lado bom em levar uma chamada de atenção por algo que aconteceu, porque isso pode ser justamente aquilo que falta para evoluirmos como pessoas ou readquirir o foco perdido em algum projeto, ou tarefa que estamos fazendo. Na minha concepção, às vezes precisamos que alguém nos dê um balançada nas ideias, compartilhando o que estamos realizando de errado e para que assim, possamos corrigir este erro ou unicamente, para prestarmos mais atenção no que estamos fazendo.
Claro que se estivermos falando de uma criança ou adolescente, provavelmente ele não aceitará nenhuma bronca, mesmo que seja algo construtivo para ele, então o que nos resta é conseguir entender isso após chegar na fase adulta da vida. Aprender a separar as críticas maldosas das construtivas é uma boa qualidade que devemos aprender, afinal, nem todo mundo quer o nosso mal, então algumas pessoas podem realmente estar falando para o nosso bem, para melhorarmos como pessoas, aqui, também entra um pouco do pensamento positivo em relação ao sentimento e conexões que teremos ao longo da vida.
Não preciso descrever com mínimos detalhes sobre as situações em que fui cobrado por algo, na qual alguém olhou no fundo dos meus olhos e lançou aquelas palavras rígidas e serias, mas ao mesmo que também tinha o tom de preocupação e esperança de que eu iria melhorar no que estava fazendo e realmente isso funcionou, seja no vínculo familiar ou profissional, este choque de realidade como costumamos dizer é necessário para abrirmos os olhos perante as situações que estamos enfrentando ou que poderemos encontrar ao longo da estrada da vida.
Então fica aqui o lembrete, que a famosa bronca de mãe têm sim um fundamento, assim como a nossa esposa que fala demais ou o marido que sempre quer dar uma lição de moral, talvez tudo isso esteja bem longe da maldade e seja apenas uma forma de dizer “estou preocupado com você, então, por favor melhore neste ponto”. Pondero que ficaria super feliz em ter alguém se preocupando assim comigo, então por mais difícil que seja, nestes momentos apenas fique calado e escute o que seu familiar está te dizendo, as palavras de repreensão podem ser apenas um disfarce para as palavras de amor e preocupação que ele tem por você.
Muito obrigado a todos que doaram um pouco do seu tempo para ler. Até a próxima pessoal!
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When our well-wisher scolds us, there exists a good side because they scold us when we get distracted or do something wrong. For a little time, we may feel bad but it's the thing which can push us to do our best and we become more careful and focused. In the long run, it's good in my opinion.
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