[ENG/PT-BR] Talk, Understand and Forgive.
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I went through a difficult week and it left me frustrated. The reason is even simple and perhaps routine in our lives: I had a heavy disagreement with someone I really like and with that, I was very sad and with that bitter feeling that the discussion had gone too far.
Defending our point of view is not wrong, but there was a good time when it didn't go that far, to the point of almost losing a friendship for simply exposing what I think about a subject. And for me, this person's friendship is something very important and valuable.
Despite thinking I was right, on the subject discussed, we spent 5 days (yes, I counted the days) without talking to each other. I was waiting for a contact from the person that did not happen. So, I went through a process of self-criticism and realized that, in fact, we both made mistakes.
It wasn't an easy decision, I know we waited for the person to come and apologize to us, but I felt like they weren't going to do that. I may be judged that I acted wrongly by calling the person to talk and explain again the points that we exalted, but as I said, it is an important friendship for me.
Finally, we created topics about what went wrong and how we could improve on them, I made it very clear that the change should come from both of us and not just from one or the other. A good conversation, a lot of understanding and finally mutual forgiveness. Everything resolved and the friendship continues!
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Passei por uma semana complicada e que me deixou frustrado. O motivo é até simples e talvez rotineiro nas nossas vidas: tive um desentendimento pesado com uma pessoa que gosto muito e com isso, fiquei bem triste e com aquela sensação amagar que a discussão foi longe demais.
Defender o nosso ponto de vista não é errado, mas tinha um bom tempo que não chegava a tanto, a ponto de quase perder uma amizade por simplesmente expor o que penso sobre um assunto. E para mim, a amizade desta pessoa é algo muito importante e valioso.
Apesar de achar que estava certo, sobre o assunto debatido, ficamos 5 dias (sim, contei os dias) sem conversar um com o outro. Estava esperando um contato da pessoa que não aconteceu. Então, passei por um processo de autocrítica e percebi que, na verdade, nós dois erramos.
Não foi uma decisão fácil, sei que esperamos a pessoa vim se desculpar conosco, mas senti que ela não iria fazer isso. Posso ser julgado que agi errado ao chamar a pessoa para conversar e explicar novamente os pontos que nos exaltamos, mas como disse, é uma amizade importante para mim.
Por fim, criamos tópicos sobre o que erramos e como poderíamos melhorar sobre eles, deixei bem explicito que a mudança deveria vir de nós dois e não apenas de um ou outro. Uma boa conversa, muita compreensão e finalmente o perdão mútuo. Tudo resolvido e a amizade continua!
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The conversation that has to do with sorting or talking about our differences or correcting one another requires great understanding because that's the only thing that can make us see the real purpose of the conversation.
You played maturity by ensuring things are settled and it's good to know you guys are back on talking terms.
Exactly, understanding is one of the ways we have to follow and have, to be able to forgive and understand each other's moment.
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You acted in the best possible way, it is not good to let our differences distance us from the people we appreciate.
Certainly, sometimes out of pride we make mistakes and distance ourselves from those we really like or love.
I kept waiting, but when I saw that the person wasn't coming, I decided to talk to her and in the end everything worked out!
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