[ENG/PT-BR] Motivational Mondays: My first post and the calm in complicated moments.
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Have a good night everyone! This is my debut here in the @freecompliments community, after receiving an invitation from my friend @crazyphantombr, I will finally start sharing some of my stories and texts with you! It's a great honor to be invited to join a community that is growing more and more!
So, the story I would like to share with you is about what happened on the 14th and 15th of November, and here in Brazil, the 15th is a national holiday. Well, what happened was that on the night of the 14th my daughter started to have a very high fever, reaching 38.9 degrees and it was a very tense moment for me, because if there is something that leaves a father or a Mothers are apprehensive that something is happening to their children. That same night, I started giving her dipyrone and gave her a warm bath so the fever could go down a little.
At dawn, on the 15th, which was a holiday as mentioned, she still had a high fever, if I remember correctly it was somewhere around 38.4 degrees and even giving her dipyrone drops the fever did not go down. With my heart in my hand and concern in my mind, I decided to take her on the holiday. I still had resistance from my daughter who didn't want to go (she's 7 years old) and soon thought about more medicine or injections.
With all the calm in the world I could have at that moment, I talked to her and explained that her fever wasn't going down and that was dangerous, because, even though it might not be a problem, I don't like giving luck to bad luck, So, I decided to take her and, by explaining, I believe she understood better.
I took her to the doctor with my wife and left my other 11 year old son with my mother, I insisted on going into the office and explaining everything to the doctor, he looked at her mouth, throat, eyes, ears, everything and found that his throat was red, but there was no sign of an infection, perhaps it was just inflammation, but there was no way to know for sure at that moment. Then he gave some medicines that we could be buying and giving to my daughter.
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When I got home I took care of her, I made her feel comfortable at home and I talked to her again and explained that it would be good for her to rest and everything, the next day she was already better, but I still decided to leave her in the care of the my wife and so she didn't go to school, on Friday, the 17th she was practically brand new and ready to go to school and get back to her routine.
Despite the large text explaining this whole story, the message I want to convey is that we must remain calm in complicated moments, so that we can act correctly, reason and see what the best course of action is. I could have despaired seeing my daughter with such a high fever, but instead, I tried to start performing gradual procedures, trying to solve the problem without having to go to the doctor, when I realized that it wouldn't work, I made the correct decision to taking her, even though it wasn't anything serious, but what if it was? Having my head in order to think made me aware of each part of the process.
So, for this week, let us be calm and lucid to think, to observe everything happening clearly and thus make the most correct decisions possible. If you have a problem, despair doesn't help, it only makes it worse, so take it easy and think wisely about all the possibilities.
Thank you very much to everyone who donated a little of their time to read. Until next time guys!
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Uma boa noite pessoal! Essa é a minha estreia aqui na comunidade @freecompliments, após receber o convite do meu amigo @crazyphantombr, começarei finalmente a compartilhar um pouco das minhas histórias e textos com vocês! É uma grande honra ser convidado para participar de uma comunidade que está crescendo cada vez mais!
Então, a história que gostaria de compartilhar com vocês é sobre o que aconteceu nos dias 14 e 15 de novembro, sendo que aqui no Brasil, dia 15 é feriado nacional. Bem, o que aconteceu foi que a minha filha na noite do dia 14 começou a ter uma febre bem alta, chegando a ficar com 38,9 graus e foi um momento bem tenso para mim, pois se tem algo que deixa um pai ou uma mãe apreensivos, é algo acontecer com seus filhos. Nessa mesma noite, comecei a administrar dipirona para ela e dei um banho morno para a febre poder abaixar um pouco.
Ao amanhecer, no dia 15, que era um feriado como dito, ela ainda estava com a febre alta, se não me falha a memória estava em algo em torno de 38,4 graus e mesmo dando dipirona em gotas para ela a febre não abaixava. Com o coração na mão e a preocupação na mente, decidi levar ela no feriado. Ainda tive a resistência da minha filha que não queria ir (ela tem 7 anos) e logo já pensou em mais remédios ou injeções.
Com toda a calma do mundo que poderia ter naquele momento, conversei come la e expliquei que a febre dela não estava abaixando e isso era perigoso, porque, por mais que talvez não desse nenhum problema, eu não gosto de dar sorte para o azar, por isso, decidi levar ela e assim, explicando, acredito que ela compreendeu melhor.
Levei ela no médico com a minha esposa e deixei o meu outro filho de 11 anos com a minha mãe, fiz questão de entrar no consultório e explicar tudo para o doutor, ele olhou a boca, garganta, olhos, ouvido, tudo dela e constatou que a sua garganta estava avermelhada, mas sem indícios de uma infecção, talvez fosse apenas uma inflamação, mas, não teria como ter certeza ali naquele momento. Então ele passou alguns remédios que poderíamos estar comprando e dando para a minha filha.
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Ao chegar em casa fiquei cuidado dela, deixei bem a vontade em casa e conversei novamente com ela e expliquei que seria bom ela ficar de repouso e tudo mais, no outro dia ela já estava melhor, mas, mesmo assim decidi deixar ela aos cuidado da minha esposa e assim ela não foi para a escola, na sexta, dia 17 ela já estava praticamente nova em folha e pronta para ir para a escola e voltar a rotina.
Apesar do texto grande explicando toda essa história, a mensagem que quero passar é que devemos ter calma nos momentos complicados, para podermos agir da forma correta, raciocinar e ver qual é o melhor caminho a se fazer. Eu poderia entrar em desespero ao ver minha filha com uma febre tão alta, mas no lugar disso, tentei começar a realizar procedimentos graduais, tentando sanar o problema sem ter que ir ao médico, quando percebi que não daria certo, tomei a decisão correta de levar ela, por mais que não tenha sido nada grave, mas e se fosse? A cabeça em ordem para pensar me fez perceber cada parte do processo.
Então, para essa semana, tenhamos calma e lucidez para pensar, para observar cada coisa acontecendo com clareza e assim tomar as decisões mais corretas possíveis. Se você está com algum problema, desespero não ajuda, apenas piora, por isso, tenha calma e pense com sabedoria em todas as possibilidades.
Muito obrigado a todos que doaram um pouco do seu tempo para ler. Até a próxima pessoal!
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Definitely true! In dutch we have a saying: 'kalmte kan je redden', when translated literally it means: 'calm can save you'.
It's a really good phrase, calm can save us in complicated moments, we just need to try to train it to use it when necessary. Thank you very much for the comment.
The one thing that is needed for a straight thought is the ability to calm ones nerves.
This story is really inspiring and I'm really happy to read your post once more.. thanks for sharing
I'm grateful, I'm glad you liked my text. It was a tense moment with my daughter, but I managed to stay calm and do things in stages until she got better. Thanks for the comment!
Tough moments require tough men.
Thank you for sharing
Thank you my friend!
Seja bem vindo!
Com certeza existem diversas situações onde prevalece a serenidade em frente ao caos. Uma mente tranquila consegue tomar as melhores decisões e acalmar todo um ambiente de tensão.
Difícil é por em prática, mas estamos aqui para tentar!
!DHEDGE
Exatamente mano, aos poucos a gente vai melhorando, com a idade e as experiências, vamos aprendendo a ter calma nas situações. Valeu pelo apoio meu amigo!
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Family is one of the biggest concerns, it was very good that you were able to stay calm. I have seen people fall into a state of nervousness that prevents them from acting correctly.
That's the idea I conveyed with my story: with nervousness and lack of attention, we can make the situation worse, so we need to be calm even in complicated moments. Thinking clearly is essential to solving the problem.
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