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What step of the way are you on?

The diversity of the processes in life is so varied and so specific to the person who lives it, that it is precisely the way of living it that makes the difference. The stories are heard in all spheres and at all levels and it is just a matter of being alive and putting attitude to our own path.

We have heard many times. For example: How people graduate at 23 and get jobs at 30 and on the contrary: Roberto graduated at 40 and worked since he was 18. Rodolfo got married at 28 and divorced at 40.

I tell you that my dad graduated at 40 as a lawyer and before that he was always a teacher. With these stories what I want to tell you is that, in my opinion, good and bad do not exist and it is not worth saying that you are late. It is only a matter of arriving at the perfect moment destined for each one of us.

WHAT IS GOOD AND WHAT IS BAD?

Of course, I don't want to be aiming at expectations, expectations have a 99.9% chance of being fulfilled, it's like assuming; making judgments and getting into criticism of others, as it turns out that we are never the owners of what may happen. Having a plan often works, but in the way of the plan there are always spaces that can change the course and it is best to be plastic to these vicissitudes and have the elasticity to adapt to the environment, while enjoying the road.

This is how being alone is not the same as being in solitude, it is simply a matter of the way you live. I know many people who, like Sol, never get married and being alone feels good. It is a perfect decision in their maturity and they enjoy just as much as those who have their married life, in their own way and with their original nuances of different processes.

I WANT TO BE MADE

On the contrary, others are always looking for and not finding someone to be with, missing and wanting that someone to come and pamper them, to love them, to take care of them, to take care of them. You may be in the middle of a quantum field crisis in which you are shouting at yourself, love yourself, take care of yourself and take care of yourself. Start with you and enjoy yourself. To take responsibility for one's own life is to solve one's own problems. And it is in that diversity that I was talking about at the beginning, the individuality of the existential processes of each one also jumps out, in that authenticity and unique path to be traveled, the other only accompanies if it is allowed or touches like every warrior "to make a solitary path". These paths are immensely rich in experiences and seeing the side of enjoyment and appreciation is the way to make them alive.

Each one of us has stories, but stories on our own, if someone else comes to share, it is good to walk together on paths, but each one of us has individual filters and ways of being and being.
I remember that my life had a chronology accepted by the culture, living with my parents, growing up, going to college, getting married, having children and playing house. But at this moment, because of the changing times, I have been presented with other ways of being in the world that I no longer reach with the same ease as before, such as going out to rumbas, traveling or other things, I have a strong focus on work. But I'm confident that doesn't mean that at some point some of that will come to me at 52 years old.

Tell me:

Do you think it's too late to start something new?

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Tell me what's new that you never thought of doing at your age?

Greetings dear @holos, over here reporting with my 1+1=Together column, giving good vibes to relationships. It starts with you. I embrace you.