Hello friends, I had several days without writing a content to share Free Compliments, my vacation is over and I'm back to school, so I have little time to do some things.

The days go by very fast and I really wanted to rest a little more, however I have to go ahead with my studies and focus on getting good grades.

So this Motivation Monday I am going to share a reflection on those days when we feel discouraged and need motivation.

We all go through moments where we really don't feel like going ahead with a personal project, especially when there are some things that don't go the way we want them to.

That's my case I had a personal project this vacation season and nothing went as expected, so I felt very discouraged, I didn't want to try again.

I used to repeat to myself a popular saying that goes: "when the weather is bad, put on a good face! to put that into practice is difficult guys, when you feel completely discouraged about something or someone, you can fake a smile but the truth is that you feel very bad emotionally.

In those times sometimes you have no one to understand you and that makes it harder to react and realize that you need to move on, until one day you stand in the mirror and have a talk with yourself.

Yes friends sometimes we reach a moment where no one will give us words of encouragement and it is good to stop for a moment in front of the mirror and have a talk with us, it sounds crazy but it worked for me just now.

I did this exercise that I once read in a post and I began to advise myself, to tell myself that everything was going to be fine, that everything would be solved soon, that my project was not bad, I just had to correct a few things and start again.

I needed to hear those words from someone, but that wasn't going to happen, I didn't want to share my reason for discouragement with anyone, my mistake maybe.

After that conversation with myself, my emotional charge slowly went away, that gave me time to organize my ideas again and remember the reasons why I proposed that personal project on vacation, well nothing went as I wanted but after thinking about it I will try again.

That was a lesson for me, something bad can become the opportunity of our life, we all make mistakes, a mistake cost me my project that is true but life goes on and I can not stay stagnant, you have to shake off the dust and move forward as my mom says.

I had been told that I could make it, the problem is that I did not believe in myself, I felt distrustful, the fall helped me to see that problem in me, I need to trust in my abilities, stop doubting.

It is not easy to feel motivated when you are alone in your projects, when your friends are not there to support you, One of the problems is that we expect too much from people, leaving aside our own security.

My vacation is over and I'm back in the classroom, so I need to concentrate and believe that I can do well not only in my studies, but also in my personal projects, When the motivation returns then also the mood changes, the desire to move towards our goals increases, guys, so I'm happy now.