No one should embrace your toxicity..

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I hear words like "They should love me for who I am " , "Accept me for who I am " etc...Well yeah no human is perfect and of course everyone have their own flaws that they need to work on or that they are working on...

But it becomes a problem when you as a person becomes so relaxed or comfortable with your toxic behaviours and expect others to embrace you with it..

Instead of waiting for people to embrace your toxicity, why can't you just work on it and stop whatever toxic behaviour you have ?? Why not stop that toxic attitude which is hurting others ??

What triggered me to write about this was when I read a story about a man who is a narcassist and he is always physically and emotionally abusing his wife , and the man keeps begging his wife and expects her to always forgive him whenever he hurts her , and in his words "no one is perfect "...Oh so!!!!so because no one is perfect , then the wife should continue to allow him to abuse her physically and emotionally??...The wife should continue to permit his toxicity??

We need to stop doing bad things and expect people to give us a hug for hurting others , change your toxic behaviours and delicate alot of time to change your negative behaviours.. Why expect others to embrace you with your toxicity when you can simple change for good...