Only those with the same experiences as you will understand you

We cannot understand languages ​​we don't speak, feelings we don't feel, memories we don't live, vibrations we don't vibrate.

In fact, we don't even have to understand. Nobody has to understand what we feel, what we want, what we vibrate, for this to become valid. Who is the other to assess what only I know? And vice versa.

Living in society, being empathetic, accepting the choices of each one does not imply being able to understand what each one feels and lives, as we all do it our way. What is needed is just respect for others and the understanding that we experience unique realities.

Only I live my life with my own, unique, individual beliefs. Only I have my story and my references. Only I built my own mental architecture.

Do not expect anyone to have the ability to understand your processes as the vibration you project may be completely different from the other and that is all right.

Respect those who think differently, those who do it differently, those who vibrate differently. Nobody is wrong, we are all in our own experience.

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I can understand your overall message due to your effective use of language, however I can agree it is improbable for me to fully embody your experience. From experience & philosophy the folly in this train of thought is theoretical egoism; which in essence can isolate us from consensus reality & Others.

Nobody has to understand what we feel, what we want, what we vibrate, for this to become valid.

This is a very valid point. Personally, I strive to communicate my experience to the other because my body/mind/essence yearn to reach out to someone outside of my experience. Sometimes this leads to conflicts which in my way is a healthy exercise in expanding my reality tunnel.

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I think the solution lies in four levels:

  • petty
  • sympathy
  • emphaty
  • compassion

Keeping in mind that we can't fully understand other people, our path as human beings is to evolve through these three concepts, trying to reach compassion.

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