Hello hello friends from all over the world, this weekend for me was a little different because my son was with his paternal family and while he was enjoying with his dad, I decided to spend those hours with the queen of my heart, my mother❤ @dealtokilate , with my rhythm of my life being a full time mom and being working and entrepreneurship, I have very little opportunity to grab my mom for myself, hahaha. So you can imagine how happy I am.

I was a few days absent for my new home #hive but among so many things today I say present, this time in the community and initiative proposed by the super funny friend @galenkp and I decided to talk about sex before marriage.

While it is true that in some "religions" so to speak, because every day you see things that leave much to think about, that among some beliefs or standards should not have sex and must be a virgin at the altar, I totally disagree with that, first and foremost because one of the best pleasures in life is to have intimacy, I think that before thinking about that possibility it is our right to know the best possible to that victim with whom we are dating or pretending to formalize a relationship, let's not fool ourselves that neither is that one gets to know in its entirety to that person because it is not so, but as we go sharing more and more, we would have a better vision and clarity of what we would have at our side after giving the yes.

I like the idea of knowing what his values are, to see how he treats his family, how was his upbringing, what aspirations and goals he has in life, what he offers beyond a kiss and a night of drinks, a crazy night like the song, because personally I pay attention to those details, Of course I like to add value and I believe that a couple can be an excellent team, I believe in the 50-50 because I like to grow as any man with good ideals would do, but I do not imagine at all that horrible scenario that I will not have intimacy with my fiancé and when the honeymoon arrives, he does not make me feel anything and it does not work for him either. It would be a total disappointment and surprise for me, don't get me wrong, there are many people that this happens to them and with this post I would never say that I would judge anyone, I am not perfect and all of us as human beings can go through any other situation and it would be great if we had someone who loves us and accepts us as we are, but the basis of any relationship among the most important is communication and trust, if that moment comes and my partner had never talked to me about it, there would be the mistake, But I insist, the best thing would be to already know and experience how much pleasure it gives you in every way, I know that others would think differently than me, that maybe it would be more exciting, exciting and even romantic to have sex after marriage, but I share my point of view and respect the ideology of each one.

So my recommendation is to have sex with protection, but have a good time, do not choose just anyone, travel, go out, meet, live together, I got pregnant 6 months after I thought I met the father of my child and in that case the victim was me, hahahahahaha. The happy part in Harold, I know you know him around here because I love to mention him in my blog.