Resentment is undoubtedly a feeling caused by some type of emotional damage that third parties consciously cause us, where our emotions are affected and in some cases may require psychological therapy to help get out of that state.

My mother taught me not to hold a grudge against anyone and to forgive even if they don't offer a sincere apology, because in the end the one who ends up hurting is oneself, it can be reflected not only affecting mental but also physical health.

Two years ago I gave birth and it is the most beautiful thing that has happened to me in my life, I became the mother of a boy named Harold 😍👶

big thing I could have done, moving to my mother-in-law's house since my son's father lived there. At first everything was rosy, but over time each one showed their true personality, mother and son. For me it was a bit of a difficult change since I was going through a new stage and my sensitivity was on the surface through my rest. Harold was so little and I wondered if I had done the right thing because I felt so alone and that is when you need support and affection the most. I missed my family very much, especially my dear mother, being a first-time mom I lived a few months that I would not wish on any woman.

Living with people outside my family nucleus, it did not matter that my son was so young, despite the fact that at work they continued to pay me fifteen and last, being legally on postnatal rest, it was not enough and I saw the need to look for the way to have another income to help me and contribute, it was at that moment that I sought help and remembered that some relatives had #hive and were active demonstrating their talents in the musical part.

One day I asked my cousins ​​@alinares and @cochanet if they could do me the favor of creating a #hive account and they did. They dedicated a day to me, I went to where he was to teach me how to set up my first post. I remember that night caught me that day and I went with my son in my arms to where I was living with those people, and what do you think? The rain caught me on the way 😔.

As a protective mother at no time did I allow my baby to get wet anywhere, everything fell on me and when it cleared up I continued on my way to that place. When I arrived, of course, the lady was with my ex-partner and with an unpleasant tone, she strongly complained to me about why I did not think about the child, that I arrived at that time and had arrived all wet with rain. I explained to him that what I was doing during the day was simply looking for a way to work without leaving or neglecting Harold for being the only person under his care 24/7, that night when I felt bad and humiliated I heard from the room that his mother I told him to leave me. And what do you think? The man, even knowing that she was breast-feeding, that she was breastfeeding, replied that no one had sent me to arrive like this and at that time. I just didn't have dinner that day, he didn't like me eating that night.

Perhaps it was a grace for them to have done that to me so low. But I am a woman of peace and in peace I left that place, not with sadness, but with the certainty that it would be better for me and that my life would change for the better, because I love myself, because I am valuable, because I have self-esteem and I am not afraid of the tests of life, hard and special. Because life is a roller coaster, it has its ups and downs.

Today I keep my job, I keep my self-esteem, my peace of mind and most importantly, my peace of mind, I have a wonderful family that was with me when I decided to close cycles. My son is already going to nursery school and although I still don't give him everything he wanted, he has a mother who defends him and loves him with her soul and with all her heart. And that's me 💃💖🌺.

Con amor, su nueva amiga @proymet ® 💖

If you allow me some advice, don't put up with anyone, love yourselves pretty✨🌱Shine, don't let emotional vampires absorb your energy and good vibes🍃🌬🌼 Believe in yourselves and in people who are real, not fake, so let's learn everyone to detect when yes and when no.

With love, your new friend @proymet ® 💖

The photos were taken from my Tecno Spark 7 phone, the cover image edited and designed in Canva free version.