Everything in its time, everything comes.

5 months ago

Everything arrives in its time, if it is going to arrive, sooner or later it arrives, there is no hurry, everything must pass and we only have to be calm and patient.

First I thank God and my mother, that in spite of being a girl of the new generation as they say of the year 2000, I have been raised and educated to the old generation, that is to say that as my mother was raised, she has transmitted me great part of the same, of course not so strict, because even though we are in another era, with many things that were not there before, but they are not excuses, as not to act well.

First let's study, let's enjoy, then the rest will come.

As well as the one who wants to go down the wrong path is because he wants to, because no one is forced to do something you do not want, if you are forced it is because you accept it.

There are also two parts, those who give advice and those who listen to advice, my mother gives it and I listen to it, if it had not been like that maybe: I would have gotten pregnant, I would have stopped studying, I would have gone down the wrong path, but none of that happened and my mother was not going to allow it either.

When I was in high school in the second year, there were already girls in the first year who were pregnant, as in the upper years, where is the fault, I think in the communication in the family, in that part I am very communicative with my mother.

Communication between mother and daughter should be from the beginning.

Now 12 year old girls already have boyfriends, at 14 years old they are pregnant, then they are alone because the boyfriend left them alone with the commitment, I now have my first boyfriend at 21 years old, I am studying. My mom told me: ** Okey you have a boyfriend, but I don't want a belly, before the degree **, just as I had confidence and accepted my boyfriend, I should respond in the same way, study and not get pregnant, because she has really sacrificed a lot of herself, not only for me but also for my brother, more since she is my mom and dad so I don't have testicles, but yes, because my dad left the house when I was 6 years old and that he has supported me so let's say no, everything has been my mom.

Although she doesn't tell me, she is my role model, she didn't take any relationship seriously until she graduated from college, but much later. Because there was no rush, she said, if it will come, it will come, but she still wanted to have her children.

Children who may have arrived early, but they are not to blame.

My reflection is: if a young woman like me is in Hive and reads me, do not stop studying, you can have a boyfriend but you have to be careful, everything comes, there is no hurry, this leaves only fatigue. Enjoy your moment of youth and student that is the most beautiful thing there is.