Nunca pierdas la "U" // Never lose the "U". [ESP-ING]

Escribiendo sin "U"

Puedo hablar hasta el cansancio de mí,
de lo mío, del yo,
de lo que tengo,
de lo que me pertenece…
Hasta puedo escribir de él,
de ellos
y de los otros.
Pero sin «U»
no puedo hablar de ustedes,
del tú,
de lo vuestro.
No puedo hablar de lo suyo,
de lo tuyo,
ni siquiera de lo nuestro.
Así me pasa…
A veces pierdo la «U»…
y dejo de poder hablarte,
pensarte, amarte, decirte.
Sin «U», yo me quedo pero tú desapareces…
Y sin poder nombrarte,
¿cómo podría disfrutarte?
Como en el cuento… si tú no existes,
me condeno a ver lo peor de mí mismo
reflejándose eternamente,
en el mismo
mismísimo
estúpido"

Jorge Bucay

Este cuento tiene vigencia y aplicación dentro y fuera de @Hive. La vida no tiene sentido si sólo existe el pronombre "yo"

Aquí le dejo ejemplos donde desaparece la "u":

Me llama la atención cuando en una relación de cualquier tipo, donde hay 2 o más personas nos sentimos solos, a mí me ha pasado.

El hijo de una amiga tiene 27 años, hablar con el es la cosa más aburrida que me puede pasar, sí lo siento, es la verdad.Sólo habla de él.

El no se explica porque siendo tan guapo está tan solo y sin novia. ¿Será porque el sólo habla de lo que le ocurre, porque nada más importa que él mismo?

Otro ejemplo, es cuando saludo a alguien que de paso es conocido y al saludarle me contesta bien! No surge un “¿bien y tú?”

Se nos vuelve un hábito desconectarnos de los otros seres, domiciliamos el yoismo, no nos damos cuenta.

Nos invito a la reflexión y observemos de que manera estamos dejando de crear bienestar dentro y fuera de @Hive, por estar olvidandonos de la "U".

¿Tienes hijos? acompáñales y enséñales a conectarse con los demás, múestrales que los otros son tan valiosos y legítimos como lo es él.

Creating Wellness, spelled with the letter "u"

Happy to return this week for our Wednesday column "Programming ourselves for wellness ".

Today I want to say that this space has become for me an opportunity to recharge my batteries. Getting involved with your experiences, your points of view, the proposals of other columnists have been fuel for my soul.

Have you ever thought about what would happen if @Holos-lotus were just the columnists? How boring it would be.

I love the usefulness and novelty of bots, of technology in general, however, I think the human factor puts that spice to the encounter.

That's why, when the tide of posts comes in I get excited, of course, I would like to stretch the time to be able to interact with many more, I think I have to manage my hours.

Tell me when i run out of voting mana because i was interacting too much... I suffer! Does it happen to you too?

In the digital era it is possible to expand our humanity

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Recognizing this, leads me to rescue the ability that we can develop the virtue of relating to create well-being , among so many things I can do is to validate the other, providing attention and kindness to those with whom I socialize. Not to lose the "U" in my relationships.

That's why I wanted to bring today one of the stories that our friend @invinc presented to us last Wednesday in his Spacio Club de lectura, when he engaged us in reading the book Cuentos para pensar de Jorge Bucay

The story is called Cuentos whith out U (Epilogo)

Here I copy the link where you can see it, also I copy it for the ease of some, it is short:

https://www.euroresidentes.com/entretenimiento/frases-citas-imagenes/cuento-jorge-bucay

"EPILOGUE.

Writing without "U "
I can talk to the point of exhaustion about me,
of what is mine, of the self,
of what I have,
of what belongs to me...
I can even write about him,
about them
and of the others.
But without "U "
I cannot talk about you,
of you,
of yours.
I cannot speak of the sume,
of your me,
not even about us.
That's how it happens to me...
Sometimes I lose the "U"...
and I stop being able to talk to you,
think you, love you, tell you.
Without "U ", I stay but you** disappear...
And without being able to name you,
how could I enjoy you?
As in the story... if you don't exist,
I'm condemned to see the worst of myself
reflecting eternally,
in the very
very
stupid"

Jorge Bucay

This story has validity and application inside and outside @Hive. Life is meaningless if only the pronoun "I" exists.

Here are some examples:

It strikes me when in a relationship of any kind, where there are 2 or more people we feel lonely, it has happened to me.

The son of a friend of mine is 27 years old, talking to him is the most boring thing that can happen to me, yes I'm sorry, it's the truth.

He can't explain why being so handsome he is so lonely, is it because he only talks about what happens to him, because nothing else matters to him?

Another case is when I greet someone I know by the way and when I greet him he answers me well! A "well and you?" does not arise.

It becomes a habit for us to disconnect ourselves from other beings, we domicile egoism and we do not realize it.

I invite us to reflect and observe how we are failing to create wellbeing inside and outside @Hive because we are forgetting the "U".

Do you have children? accompany them and teach them to connect with others, show them that others are just as valuable and legitimate as they are

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