It takes a lot to be a man

Alot of people will say be a man that statement goes along way because it's takes a lot to be a man lately i have seen alot of man committing suicides just because they want to be a man generally you have to be 18 years old to be an adult but in my dear country we have 10 years old boy looking for how to make it in the streets, for real i just wish there's one day they can use to celebrate us. Well do not get me wrong I'm not saying man is the only one to be celebrated or we do almost everything but take it or leave it men does everyday just because they want to be a man.

When i was in the college there's this my friend that's so frustrated 😩 no one to help him to survive and so on it got to a stage that he had to do Yahoo so he can make it and graduate in school.. I'm not supporting fraud but alot of people fall into this shit, sometimes i asked myself why must everyone do fraud to be a man althou their level of patience is not enough but then it's not easy at same time

I have seen and met old people doing hard labours i asked one man last year when i saw him working inside the sun without stopping i asked him sir what are you doing under this hot sun i meant where are your children sir you should not be doing this at this age , he replied my son I'm doing this for my child in school so he can be a graduate and take care of me for real i cried and in that moment i wish i have what i can do to help him but then i don't have he told me about how he used his life without being an educated person and how his ready to support his children educations. I'm just scared because education in my dear country doesn't mean you will be rich or see a good job.

As small as I'm i get scared everyday telling myself that i must not be poor in my life but then where is the opportunity, so many years in school and still nothing but they said be a man

The funniest part of it all is most men die of depressions since no one will trust us that we are trying our best, my advice is we should learn to voice out no matter what

So what exactly does it take to be a man
Courage the first thing a man must learn to do is to have courage because it's not easy to make it when you are not born with a silver spoon, courage is very important at least you will be able to face anything without getting scared.

Patient
Generally patient is needed in everything we are doing so to be a man you must have alot of patience if not you will end up either doing fraud or anything illegal that is not good.

Hard and smart work
A man should learn how to work hard and at the same time work smart, some times you just have to work with your brain to make it big in life and at the same time working hard is necessary.

In conclusions it's not easy to be a man but then no matter where we found ourselves we should learn to talk, suicide is never an options althou it not easy but then let make sure we talk no matter what we might be facing in life 💯

This is the little story i have to write about and i hope we enjoy it. Welcome to my blog have a nice day 🙂