Finding the Perfect Balance: Love, Money, and Marriage

Good afternoon everyone. I am really excited this afternoon to be here. I couldn't miss this topic for any reason....
At first when i saw this topic the first day it was out, i didn't have time to read it because i had series of exams to write, i couldn't jeopardize my exams..

But since i am free today, i have decided to come back and look at the question very well, refresh my brain and reason am.. The topic is really fun... Most of these people don’t know that times have changed. This week, we want to to tell us which one of these two is more important to you in marriage. Is it love, money, both or are there any other factors you’d consider before getting married? Let’s learn fro each other

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Omor....at first, why person go even bring those two together in question. Anyways.
For me love and money are very essential in marriage. I mean sometimes, it is Even when there is love that money used to flow...
I usually hear a lot of married people say, when i met him, he had nothing, i was the one feeding him, but love lead and look at us now, we are dancing in money because we didn't allow material things to come in between their love story tarrrrrrrhhhhhhhh, don't talk again.

Before i marry you, i must make sure that you are in love with me, i won't and can't marry someone that doesn't love me but has money... I won't marry you because you will be like you're spending too much money, after all i have done for you I don't want it in my marriage. Let both of us have this money even if it is not equal.... When both spouses have money, there will be high level of respect....

But at the same time, i prefer money to love yes na, normally i love soft life in my life like this... All those thing of when i met him he had nothing, now look at were we are uncle you lie, make money before falling in love with a woman.... Money, money, money.... It is when there's love and no money that will make someone endure cheating.
The person will be like, do you know thatthis is what is putting food on our table, blablabla
Oga, aunty rest, let both of us starve together.

Another factor i will consider before going to marriage is that I don't want to Marry a ready made man who does not love me for who i am
This is really causing a lot of issues in some marriages. When you marry a ready made man who has everything and he is damn rich, and you come into his home has his wife, then you are finished, especially if he doesn't love you....

In this kind of marriage, the first thing you will hear is what did you bring to the table, what value have you added in this house since you came i mean,you won't add anything because it is full, There is no space to add anything again....and then problem Will start especially, if he has pride. Then, you will say something like, i brought you from the village, i picked you up from the gutter
Oyah, oga thank you i really appreciate it, take me back to my gutter, a rich man that loves me will still come and Marry me....

But all the same back to the question of the day.
I prefer both Money and love i mean this days, it is really had to find true love, but you see money, it will easily come by and my man will love me even if i don't love him, i will learn to love him when we marry so far the money is still there, after all, women were not created to love, it is men that are to love us.
because i cannot come and stuffer has a young lady, though i will have my own money in abundance but it is sweeter when you use your man's Money.

When there's money and love, the marry tends to move sweeter, smoothly and enjoyable. But if there is no money, the marriage tends to be boring.
And if there is no love, your partner will not enjoy each other, because love leads oooo. The money tends to last longer when both is available.
Love, money and marriage is the perfect balance

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