I'm free, so I'll keep moving
The year is going by in a flash, and one thing that we cannot cling to or relive is time. I remind myself of this crucial fact every day.
I'm grateful to have travelled and lived in different places and experienced various cultures, and regardless of how individual and authentic I am to myself, such exposure has made me realise that we are universal beings, with the same fears, needs, and desires.
In my daily encounters, everywhere I go, and each time I relocate, I give and take a part of myself, whether I want to face it or not. That's simply because I have to conform to a new life and situations that I immerse myself in.
I enjoy reflecting on my life; This happens frequently when I'm walking or riding around new towns that I live in or visit. I have pleasant flashbacks of many people who have influenced me, and some lessons I've learned, and see how I can apply those lessons to my current life, and move onwards.
Things are and have not always been all rosy, but I accept that inevitable changes will always come, and I focus on the positive aspects of situations and learn from the negatives, so I don't repeat them. Some lessons are learned the hard way and others as a natural progression with age. Simply, life.
Yes, we cannot travel back in time, but when I think about some of my most valuable lessons in the last few years, some things that strike foremost in my mind that I could use as a mantra would be to not waste time or let fear hold me back. I realise every day that I just have to go for what I want and act now, even if it means digging deep within myself to find courage. To do things that align with my morals and find real confidence to undertake and push boundaries by stepping out of my comfort zone.
With the changes that come with movement, there will be challenges and obstacles that can hinder us physically and mentally; So it is important to figure out what our coping mechanisms are instead of dwelling on things in the past, that might be recurring and can hinder our progress.
I've had to take small steps to overcome the hurdles that come with changes by understanding what makes me happy, what are the things that I truly love, and having those things as my go-to default things when faced with challenges.
Being adaptable to change and being flexible is more likely to be, depending on our thoughts and how we control our minds.
A worrying mind cripples our feet and makes us afraid to take new steps when doubts come bombarding when we least need them.
So, I've learned to take things one step at a time. I no longer psych myself up anticipating what-ifs. Instead, I am mindful in each step of every motive, ensuring that my mind is filled with positive thoughts which gives me the confidence that I will make the best decisions in whatever course of action that's required.
Whatever we do, it's important to always take the time to appreciate the freedom that we have in our lives.
I thank you for reading, as I reflected on my journey, life, and lessons learned while running errands.
All images are mine. Taken in Newton Abbot, UK on 2nd June 2023.
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A person who doesn't have freedom will envy those who have and nothing can be compared to being free so it is understandable.
Freedom comes with challenges as well and picking up lessons, and applying them as we move is important to make the best out of being free.
I always believed that we are all one human regardless of our skin colour and you have proven that to be true again.
Nice pictures, I love the owl on the outfit. It looks like it is looking ahead of the road for you. Happy weekend.
Thanks for your lovely comment.
I like your view of the owl, I never thought of it that way.
Still, you are not far off, according to what I've read here:
I do like owls and feel a lot of optimism from them.
Wishing you a lovely weekend too:)
I have learnt as well Milly to take a step, no matter how small and not let fear hold me back because most times, those little fears make us miss out on things that could have made us genuinely happy.
I really admire the steps you've taken towards becoming happy. For yourself. Not everytime is rosy, of course but we have the power to make it so if we can just finetune our mindset. So it's wonderful that you love reflecting on your life. I've grown to like it too.
P.S: Are those shoes maroon or purple?
Yes, fear holds us back more than we often realise.
I've also experienced much hatred just from other people's inner fear, so I have learned not to think too much about others' opinions.
I call it purple. I just brushed them and left them to get a little sun 😆
I've had a pair of shoes just like this but in earth colours, really comfy I must say. Maybe if we ever met, I'd snatch this one from you as well.😁
Haha! I'm surprised that I still have them. Maybe because it's Italian made and I quite like the quality of Italian stuff. Purple is not a colour that I have many items of though 😆
Very wise
Living in the moment, in the now
I do remember your wise words; "Let's cross that bridge when we get there" ... which I continue to apply to other aspects of my life, and I find it more beneficial:)
Haha that's good to hear
You see yourself as very happy and free to do the things that every beautiful woman should do: breathe fresh air, love your family, love yourself. I see you walking through such beautiful landscapes and I feel that you enjoy it a lot. You must also love yourself and your family very much, your smile reflects it. I believe that I will always have nice words to speak highly of a woman who expresses love for herself and with that inspiration you want and wish the good of others. Reflecting a lot helps to be happy, despite the fact that life sometimes hits us, but when we take it as learning, it helps us to move forward and succeed, all your clothes and smile fit you very well, they generate happiness. Keep free with faith, optimism and loving, and keep acting in life, with joy and doing good, so you will get everything beautiful. From Venezuela receive my most sincere wishes that everything is very well for you. successes
Thank you for your kind comment, which made me smile.
I do love and cherish my family dearly, despite whatever different outlooks we have on life.
Not being able to create my happiness, and losing my freedom are two things that I dread losing.
Thanks for your compliments also, I appreciate them 😊
Have a lovely weekend:)
Certainly dear @millycf1976 that is our great challenge, being able to create our happiness and not lose freedom, losing them would make us unhappy and slaves, that's why we have to keep fighting, in my case hive has helped a lot, it makes me very happy, and forget from some details that try to disturb me and from yoga, it is another great company, thank God I have my wife and children who give me a lot of strength so that my health is better and better. Unfortunately the socioeconomic situation in my country is very bad, I try to forget that and keep fighting to have a life full of happiness. That's important friend @millycf1976 fight with a lot of faith, smile a lot. Hugs from Venezuela
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I love how you paired the slightly moved image with trees with the idea of time passing, and not wanting to waste it. You have a wonderful outlook, very joyous, but grounded.
Also, may i just say, that dress is gorgeous 🤗
Yeah, I liked that the tree looked like it was moving😆
Thanks, the dress is pretty cool. 100% Cotton from Nepaul. I thought it was unique and quirky when I first saw it 😊
I love the adaptability that I've gained over the years. Have yet to travel and encounter other cultures in their natural habitat, but I'm confident that I've grown effective enough with my perspectives that I could easily immerse myself in other worlds. I feel deeply free!
Blessings to you, my friend!
It would be interesting to hear your story after you travel and explore the world, because you would basically be doing it in reverse, having gained the wisdom that you already have:)
There is so much truth packed into this post, I don't think I can select just one thought to focus on in a comment. But I'll try.
I hadn't really thought about it this way before, but it is important to know how we cope. Not everyone copes the same way. Some people don't understand my way of coping, but that's ok. They can deal with their own challenges the way that works for them.
And it's also true that different things make different people happy. I have caught myself envying fun things other people do, and then I remember, I don't really enjoy that! So why bother to be envious?
I'm glad that you found this useful 😊
Yes, we're all so different. My husband is a water person who loves diving, but he hates the beach. I love the beach and like hanging out there, but I hate being in the water.
I like meditation and Tibetan Bells that calm me and put me in a state of zen where I'm happy and very creative, whereas, my husband hears the sounds and it makes him nervous and uneasy. 🤣
I often wonder how we are ever attracted to a spouse who is so very different!
Haha! Yeah, opposites attract they say. I think it's nice that we have different interests, because we do have lots of similarities too:)