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We are part of a society, because we are social beings...we like to belong to groups, we love to share with others. Society as we all know is organized by families. Families that according to their culture, religion have their norms of how to educate those who come to them...for some the family is the most important thing although others go through different concepts of family and how they are seen, what happens in them, how they are managed, how they carry those norms to continue in it.

I remember a concept that opened my way of looking at the family and it goes like this: The family is an endless source of problems. At that moment I felt identified with this concept, because looking at it coldly, each participant in a family has his own thoughts and actions towards himself and those around him. This makes that moving in a family has different ways of living and how to manage in it.

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Sometimes, unconsciously we suffer a lot for the actions of each member of a family, if he studies, if he doesn't like, if he works, if he looks for what to do, if he shares or not, usually the parents are the ones who suffer the most or worry because each one is different from the others. Here conflicts arise and if they are not handled as they should be, it brings consequences in the interpersonal relationships in the family.

According to different cultures, in many of them it is maintained to follow the norms, in others there are spaces and each one decides according to his conscience to leave that pattern or to continue in it.

Every society evolves, in this evolution different actions of how to handle oneself in society and as a main group the family have become known. There are those who when they begin to establish their own belief system leaving aside the beliefs of the family changes occur, the important thing is to be able to identify these changes and accept that each individual is unique and unrepeatable, to accept this can generate these changes that everyone has different tastes, in addition to each one must be respected in every situation of interest or decision made.

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When talking about decision making the belief system weighs a lot, here comes into play the family belief system or the individual belief system. When you begin to create the latter, the way you look at others opens up...an internal change begins, which then begins to show in the external world.

Thinking about this, Love is the greatest feeling that must be maintained for acceptance to occur with the understanding that family is family, in addition each one must follow what their feelings indicate.

There are those who move away at certain times, then understand and value their roots...it is a very large compendium of how to manage as families, how to maintain respect, solidarity, presence even though everyone is different.

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Somos parte de una sociedad, porque asì somos seres sociales...nos agrada pertenecer a grupos, nos encanta compartir con otros. La sociedad como todos sabemos està organizada por familias. Familias que de acuerdo a su cultura, religiòn tienen sus normas de como educar a los que a ella van llegando...para unos la familia es lo màximo aunque otros se pasean por diversos conceptos de familia y como son vistas , que ocurre en ellas, como se manejan, como se llevan esas normas para seguir en ella.

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Recuerdo un concepto que me abriò mi forma de mirar a la familia y dice asi: La familia es una interminable fuente de problemas. En ese momento me sentì identificada con este concepto, porque viendo en frìo cada participante de una familia tiene sus propios pensamientos y acciones hacia èl y hacia quienes le rodean. Esto hace que el moverse en una familia tiene diferentes formas de vivir y como manejarse en ella.

A veces, de forma inconsciente se sufre mucho por las acciones de cada miembro de una familia, si estudia, si no le agrada, si trabaja , si busca que hacer, si comparte o no, por lo general lo padres son los que màs sufren o se preocupan porque cada uno es diferente a otros. Aquì surgen conflictos que si no se llevan como debe ser trae consecuencias en la relaciones interpersonales en ella.

De acuerdo a diferentes culturas en muchas se mantiene en seguir las normas, en otros hay espacios ya cada quien decide de acuerdo a su conciencia salir de ese patròn o continuar en el.

Toda sociedad evoluciona, en esta evoluciòn se han dado a conocer diferentes acciones de como manejarse en la sociedad y como grupo principal la familia. Hay quienes que cuando comienzan a establecer su propio sistema de creencias dejando a un lado las creencias de la familia ocurren cambios, lo importante es que se logre identificar esos cambios y aceptar que cada individuo es ùnico e irrepetible, al aceptar esto puede generarse esos cambios que cada uno tiene gustos diferentes, ademàs que cada uno debe ser respetado ante cada situaciòn de interès o decisiòn tomada.

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Cuando se habla de tomas decisiones el sistema de creencias pesa mucho, aquì entra en juego el sistema de creencias familiar o el sistema de creencias individual. Cuando se comienza a crear este ùltimo se abre la manera de como mirar a los demàs...comienza un cambio interno que luego se comienza a mostrar en el mundo externo.

Pensando en esto el Amor es el sentimiento màs grande que se debe mantener para que se de la aceptaciòn con ese entendimiento de que familia es familia, ademàs cada quien debe seguir lo que sus sentimientos le indiquen.

Hay quienes se alejan en determinadas êpocas, luego entienden y valoran sus raìces...es un compendio muy grande de como manejarse como familias, como mantener el respeto, la solidaridad, la presencia a pesar que cada quien es diferente.

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