My Rhythm to Love Language
Reflect on your own love language and how it has influenced your relationships. Describe moments when you felt most loved and appreciated, and explain how understanding your love language affects your connection with your partner.
When we talk about love language, it's how we express love to my partner. One of the love languages I don't take for granted is quality time. When that quality time is there, there will be no room for us to think and get worried about anything.
One of the things that led to the end of my relationship with my ex was this very issue. Once he gets back home, he prefers to stay in the parlor with his cousin and gist, leaving me in the room to watch as many channels as I want. It was a painful experience but I was unable to say anything because he would always say I take little things seriously.
Something happened one day, since he complained about me taking little things seriously. One night, I was craving for toasted bread and he left to go get one for me. He was staying too long and I decided to go stay in the palace. Getting there I met his cousin. We began conversing, we were engrossed and he returned and saw how we were flowing.
He handed the toasted bread to me and went inside as he didn't want to join us in the parlor. He didn't last 30 minutes inside and he came calling I should come and sleep, I wanted him to have a tip of how it feels. I told him I'm coming and he went back and never returned, which meant he was already vexed.
I stayed in the parlor till 10pm before I left for the room because that's exactly the same time he normally retires to bed once he's in that parlor after leaving me in the room. I went to the room and was shocked to see he was still up. He knew I never did something like that before and he was ready to know why.
That was when I opened up and informed him how I valued quality time with my partner but all I got from him was the opposite. Even after the whole lecture that night on how important investing time with a partner is. It was like I poured water on the wall. It makes me skeptical if he was truly in love or if he has someone who he loves her presence more than mine.
After all the trials to make things work out for us with no effort, we call the relationship to an end and everyone has peace of mind. For my partner, the love language I hold in high regard is investing quality time with him.
With quality, partners get to have meaningful connections and shared experiences like quality conversation and spending quality time together on bed, on sofa seats, with this connection, there would be this feeling of love lingering. It is always good for partners to understand each other's love language as it contributes to a meaningful relationship.
Quality time is second to none, with that, other things fall in place if you ask me.
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It adds a depth and give meaning to relationship.
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