I have seen cases of cases, of children and parents who are poorly educated and have no manners, who do not know how to behave. I say they are parents too, because they do not know how to set limits and are very permissive. Which is one of the causes of children being daring and terrible in meetings, when they visit the family and in many other events. It can also happen that the child has a condition and their parents do not want to accept them or have not realized it.

So, too, children who need psychologists, therapies and medication. Recently I was told about the son of a friend of mine, who changed school because the teacher had a hold on her son and made a report indicating that he urgently needed a specialist. And her expression was:

“Crazy!... How could the teacher say that about my son?”

This is how some parents act. And they observe everything that the neighbor's child does, but the one they have at home does not pay attention to him, and this one ends up with everything. This is why I tell you that there are cases of cases, like children who come to other people's houses and destroy everything and break other children's toys. For me, that is not a game. You are raising a child, and you have an obligation to teach them manners. For everything they learn will be the basis of their future sharing.

They also throw tantrums in the street, supermarkets and everywhere, if they don't do or buy what they want. They are manipulative from an early age. But there are mothers, who are more spoiled than their children. Then, when they turn their backs, family and friends, they take the skin off their backs, as grandma Bertita's used to say. Well, they are absolutely right, there are people who do not feel sorry for them and if they tell them up front that the child is not invited.

At home is where the child is taught, especially by example, the rules of courtesy, to be polite, respectful. Above all, not to use profanity. It is necessary to establish limits, reprimand them, correct them, but all with respect and consideration. According to the journalist, Alba Caraballo Folgado, in her article published in Guía Infantil, entitled: "10 signs that indicate that the child is spoiled", she gives us some behaviors of these children:

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Mistake is the right word for some parents who look the other way when their children are misbehaving. It is much more dangerous when they support them and say:

-My child was not-.

I do not understand how they can affirm it, if they are at home sleeping and the children in the street at any time of the day, bothering the neighbor, breaking the plants, on the roofs, bothering the pets, throwing stones and so many other things. In December, throwing rocks at the dogs and kittens. My grandmother Bertita's used to say:

• "Children only learn bad habits in the street"-.

This is very true, to educate and raise a child you don't need recipes, books or anything else. Just love them, be attentive to them, establish limits in a respectful and non-violent way. Above all, set an example. If you do not manage to put an end to these attitudes of children, these behaviors continue until adolescence and adulthood. Then they become vulgar adults, they shout for anything, they always want to win an argument.

In the workplace, they fail to adapt in teams, do not strive to achieve organizational goals and objectives, lack of ethics and this prevents them from taking advantage of opportunities and lose their jobs. In the family, they cannot live together in peace, they are sometimes abusive. In the communities and their environment, they are unbearable, bad neighbors, they eat the traffic light, they tailgate everywhere because they always want to be the first and stand out.

Friends and parents of #Motherhood I invite you to reflect, to pay more attention to your children. At this stage of childhood and adolescence, you still have time to make amends and lead them on the right path. It costs nothing to give love to a child.

"There is always a moment in childhood when the door opens and lets the future in."
(Graham Greene).

Children must be prevented from doing whatever they want, especially outside the home. Limits must be set, and to achieve this, children must be observed to see the signs. Also communicate with teachers to verify their behavior at school and with classmates. In order to make a decision that will benefit the child.

I believe that the only thing that can help in the upbringing and education of children is to feel loved and respected. However, here are a few tips:

• Set an example, this is fundamental because children are imitators.
• Tell them stories and life stories, where the characters are respectful and ethical, with values.
• Share more time and plan activities
• Of love

"The best way to make children good is to make them happy."
(Oscar Wilde)

Parents of #Motherhood, December is not only a time for parties and gifts, it is also a time for reflection. I invite you to make accurate decisions regarding your children, to give lots of love and example. Respect them so that they will love you and pay attention to you when you talk to them about their problems. They may not be serious, but for them it means a lot. Hug them tightly and give them protection.

Remember that gifts, cell phones, video games, are no substitute for the love and companionship they need. Only love and family support are the basis for raising good men and women. Do not continue to raise spoiled children, poorly educated and without manners.

Love, affection and smiles move the world. Thanks for visiting the column Help, grandma!, see you next week. I love you all.

Namasté

"Teach children, and it will not be necessary to punish men."

(Pitágoras)

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50 frases célebres sobre los niños y la infancia

50 famous quotes about children and childhood

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Frases de sabiduría sobre la crianza de los hijos

Wisdom phrases on parenting.

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10 señales que indican que el niño está malcriado.

10 signs that indicate that the child is spoiled.

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La mala educación y la falta de modales ¿a qué se deben? .

Bad manners and lack of manners, what are they due to? .

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