Pathway to Healing - The Strength Within

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It never fails to amaze me how we as humans can overcome adversities, be it physical or emotional.

Ok, I know it's often more than just a little hiccup, nevertheless, we can overcome difficulties or learn to live a new kind of life, and of course, it all depends on the size of those curveballs life throws our way.

Yet, we still doubt ourselves when we go through a crisis; be it the tragic loss of a loved one, physical pain, sickness, financial woes, trouble with the neighbours, or whatever.

I did not feel this positive five weeks ago just after my hernia 'fix.' The deep despair of the loss of my sweet hubby knocked the wind out of my sails once again when I had to face this painful journey alone. I turned to YouTube videos to find techniques to get in and out of bed, and I searched and searched till I eventually found something that worked with a couple of tweaks.

I can drive again, cough, and sneeze (still with no gusto!) and have to restrain myself and be careful with certain movements, BUT I am pain-free at last. Of course, one forgets, but the odd twinge is nothing compared to what it was like before.

The body's ability to heal itself is truly a wonder, a miracle in fact, but we have to play the game and not work against it!

Listen to your body, get good nutrition, rest, spend time outdoors in the sun, if the weather permits, put on your favourite music, and connect with friends and family, even if it's just a phone call. If there's no one, you will always find like-minded people here on Hive, join one of the Discord channels, and you'll soon have a new circle of virtual friends from all over the world! A great way to expand one's horizons.

Laughter is the best medicine, although I could not do much of that in the beginning - yes those tummy muscles do their job when it comes to laughing!

The best news of all is that there is help for IBS which was what more than one doctor diagnosed, watch your diet, and try cutting out dairy, gluten, and gassy-forming foods like cruciferous veggies (cabbage and so forth), dried beans, fried food, chocolate, and other triggers. What works for some, doesn't work for others, so it's best to take note of what triggers your IBS.
Caffeine is no good, but I am having my morning coffee again, am using way less coffee creamer, cutting out sugar, and limiting myself to only one cup per day!

IBS triggers are different for everyone, and I'm certainly not going to deprive myself and not have a treat every so often, BUT, I'm not overdoing it, and it's doing the trick so far!

The lesson learnt is never to give up, and to draw on that inner strength that we all have!

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Dear me, you've got IBS? No fun! Check out the GAPS diet. I've seen it work a couple of times for IBD illnesses. No unapproved treats allowed though. Not ever! Maybe it's not the right diet for you...

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Hi @owasco, I was in denial but had to admit in the end that the doc was right. Yes, I know all about it after indulging in those forbidden snacks. I forgot to mention that I've been regularly taking a very good probiotic for the past 2 months, I was stupid, and used to skip it as it's expensive which of course was a waste, but it's been worth taking it regularly, so I'll continue.
Rather spend money on that than on forbidden snacks😉
I will certainly look at that diet, thank you for that.

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How great that you are feeling better. I hope it gets progressively better and better until you're on top of a mountain!

Cheers and best wishes my friend.💚

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Thanks Carolyn, I'm starting to do the odd foodie blog so hope to be in full swing with that soon.
I'm just so thankful to feel myself again.
Have a great Friday my friend, thinking of you in the cold Montreal <3

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I'm so glad you have a new meaning to life. You have been very disciplined in your recovery and today you are able to do many things, especially going out and enjoying yourself.
Eat things that don't harm you.
The best therapy is to smile at life. Your loss has been difficult for you but it is there in your heart for life. Your reflection is excellent. Happy weekend. 🤗🥰

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Eat things that don't harm you.

That is the best advice @mamani, I'm slowly learning that what I eat is the big secret.
Laughter still is the best medicine!
Enjoy your weekend as well x

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Thank you very much, excellent day to you. 🤗😁😘

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The trick is indeed to listen to your body, and it takes some mind discipline, as there are so many traps available in the stores. That's why I hardly ever go into a shop !LOLZ

Glad that you are now coping with so much less pain milady.

!PIZZA and !LUV

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I mostly order from Checkers60, helps with temptations, but went into the store and succumbed🙈😅

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I think that we must also do an order from Checkers60, as you are right about the temptation !LOLZ
Easy to succumb to the sights, as they were especially designed to catch the eye 🤪

!PIZZA and !LUV

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