WEEK 199| Changes in the last 20 years

Hello hive users! Undoubtedly my changes have been evident, both physically and in my way of thinking and acting.

Explain how you have changed in the last twenty years, how, why and how that change has affected your life using examples. Remember to use your own photos.
Hello hive users! Undoubtedly my changes have been evident, both physically and in my way of thinking and acting.

Twenty years ago my children were young and my life revolved only around their lives. Going back to that past brings me joy. Twenty years ago my twins (daughters Johana and Diliana) were eleven years old and my youngest son Gabriel was six years old. It has changed the way I look at life, before I could say that I was immersed in a world where everything was more rosy because of the responsibility of having children

Twenty years ago I was 38 years old, I was a hurricane of emotions, many doubts overwhelmed my life, I was somewhat fearful, but at the same time the love for my family pushed me to move forward. My life was very active, I worked in sales, I also had to take care of everything at home and of course, everything related to my children: taking them to school, preparing food, buying what was needed to keep going and also taking them to their homework. This ranged from singing lessons, music, swimming, soccer and whatever they liked

Now I feel more secure, confident, serene, and my stable children in life make me feel that their upbringing was within the normal parameters of discipline and love

As a couple there have been many changes in me, I have been able to recover my self-esteem, I must admit that I have learned to have my feet on the ground and give me the value I deserve. I am grateful for everything I have learned. I feel that I am still very beautiful both inside and out. The desire to live has multiplied, I want and I ask God to give me many years of life, just to multiply the ones I lived as a couple to continue enjoying my family fully.

I have learned not to cling to things or people, if you are not happy with someone we must help them to be happy alone, so love is felt, but if it affects you mentally and physically give the opportunity to be happy alone that is a big step, it is a great sign of love

I have learned that with light luggage it is easier to travel through life, that simplicity is the best medicine to achieve many goals

My life has changed a lot in the twenty years, but my essence has remained intact, my peace is not negotiable and I do not lose my freedom for anything or anyone

The changes I have had I do not see it as affecting me, I have to stay alone as a couple, if that is something that affects me I still do not notice it, I almost lost my life, my mental health and I am really grateful that I was saved from this great battle, I hope that many couples can understand what is truly the goal of couples to unite.

Communication is the most important thing in the couple, but a frank communication, sincere, without reproaches and always fighting for the emotional stability of both, I must remember that psychiatric hospitals are full of mental health problems

In these twenty years many things have changed, but my mind, soul and smile are still intact

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