Ladies of Hive contest #74 : If I could change one thing about my personality
If you could change one thing about your personality, what would it be?
This is my first time of joining this contest in #ladiesofhive community and the question is kind of attractive.
In this life the only thing that is constant is change. Either we like it or not we are bound to change every time either positively or negatively. Some people change from bad to good and some change from good to worst.
Life can not be left stagnant, it have to be in a motion for it not to be unreadable.
There are sometimes we have no direction, no clear vision even though we know the destination. At that time we will be thinking of the way to turn around thinking about how to make a change in our lives but we won't find an answer with that we will be stuck in the middle of nowhere.
At that particular time in life whether we change for the good or change for the bad depends on our own decisions it is up to us.
Everything we experienced in life will lead our way in this world.
If I could change one thing about my personality it will be the anger issue because that personality is something i detest because it is not good.
Getting angry at every little thing, even what does not worth getting angry on.
As we all know there are some personality that we don't like but it has to happen maybe because it is in our gene.
At times,the anger issue have some negative impact in me and affect people around me, but when I think about it, it's not about the anger it's about the way I choose to deal with it.
So I think if I can change the way I view and deal with the anger issue, I think what I think of bad trait can become a strength to me and enable me to become a better fashion of myself.
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Anger can get the best of us at times; it slips up and sometimes just blows up. I try my best not to get angry as I might say things I'll regret and they can't be taken back.
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I have been giving this some thought recently. Here is what I have come up with:
Our minds and emotions will have an impulsive response to a situation. I have to control that impulse, let my brain calculate things and come up with the best response. Thus, not eliminating the emotional impulse, but dealing with it constructively.
The moment between impulse and response is real and it is where we leverage the power of our intellect.