WEEK 218 - GOOD SEX OR BAD SEX: HOW WOULD YOU DESCRIBE YOURSELF?

Sex or the sexual act is something that goes beyond a moment of connection between individuals with opposite organs. The phallocentric view of sexuality has been demystified over the years. The act is a "ritual" that occurs between two or more individuals, with physical contact, exchange of energy, affection, love and momentary or total trust between both parties, through mutual desire, a moment that provides a whirlwind of emotions. It can also be a physical moment without any feelings involved.

What would be good sex? First of all, we can say that sex is linked to emotions. Mutual desire and connection characterize the moment. Performance is something to be highlighted, ét is an intimate moment where the limits are determined by those involved. When this moment of connection goes beyond the limits of physical pleasure, body and soul unify. Expressions of pleasure and love concretize this connection. There are stimuli that cannot be explained even by science.

When we describe the personality of bad sex, we are talking about a moment that doesn't flow, the connection is cut off between those involved, the discomfort is visible, one of the parties longs for the end, this ends up becoming a moment of discomfort and penance. It is a moment to be shared and not consummated by just one of the parties, it leaves scars and shakes the emotional state, it is something I do not recommend, it destroys your emotions.

Both are contexts experienced by most people who have an active sex life. Given my experiences, when you are with the person you love, you have desire or a connection, it doesn't matter where it is, whether it is something long or the famous "quickie", it is a wonderful moment, good feelings flow, a simple connection of looking promotes the exchange of infinite information, you talk with the body, speech ceases to exist. There are also those situations where sex is terrible, you always have some story to tell about it and keep it under lock and key, what can I say: it is a mechanical act, an attempt to connect feelings that do not exist, individual expectations that disappear at the end of the moment.

And you, do you agree with the above thought or disagree? Comment below.