The Jaring Consequence Of Presumed Negative Feedback
Everyone craves love, even if these yearnings or intentions are not spoken. Vividly we struggle to speak out truth, especially with people who we love, it's often cumbersome to communicate our truest realities especially when we fear the consequence from the feedbacks of people. In this video I talked about the bliss of knowing the extents of flaws we can have but still bask in the knowledge of fulfilment since it takes the best of people to understand the deepest of our issues. I talked about ego and insecurities.
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This is a great discussion. Consequences of negative feedback are always presumed to be negative. There's always a negative impression at first, but the outcome isn't always negative if you use it to your advantage.
Exactly, there's the presumption that the feedback would be negative, we as humans, we're always wary of negative feedback and sometimes we're better safe than sorry. But, it's not always the case like you've said. Thanks for coming through
Feedbacks are so much essential in life because you get to know what's next for you to do..And in the aspect of speaking the truth it's actually sad to say the real truth to our loved ones tho but it has to be said if truly yo want their growth
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I try not to overthink friendships. I don't have that many friends and sometimes the thought comes to mind whether the few people I call friends actually value my friendship with them, I guess it happens to everyone. It's a type of anxiety.
It also comes with a fear of being alone. When you have a fear that the few friends you have will find a reason or a flaw in your character and decide to stop being friends with you, it could get you thinking too much and then you try to fix a problem that isn't there.
I've realized that no one is perfect. And requesting feedback is hardly ever important. You are your best judge and if you depend on your friends to tell you the truth about yourself, you might end up being dragged in many directions that aren't what you see for yourself.
My 2cents simply is, find yourself first before seeking feedback, if you need to. If you know who you are, feedback will simply aid you in the right direction, if you don't, even positive feedback will seem negative.
You mentioned that moment of anxiety, to me, this is that state where we act irrationally based on the Instincts that we actually possess, as regarding friendship, we unknowningly accrue them sometimes and in the event of being needy, we turn to even the strangest of sources for closure and feedback plus assurance.
I've come to accept so many aspects my life including basking in the shame of doing things that I would normally feel ashamed of.
However, I've come to see balance as the right way to go. I like to tell people never to see perfection in me, sometimes I have people who do, they expect me to be 100% at all time and this is a standard that we cannot even begin to sort out.
Thanks for coming through, what this detailed one.