Why You Feel Entitled To Fairer Circumstances In Life

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Hello there guys. There's often this negative vibes that comes from a feeling of being entitled. In this video, I discuss about the reason for default sense of entitlement and how it relates to our powerlessness in done certain choices we have in life. I discussed how vital this can be in the basic relationship we have with ourselves, our lives and the Society, race or culture we are born into.




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This is interesting and I grabbed everything you have said. While listening, I remembered the story of an Aunt where she narrated her past experience. She said she needed to pay her school fees and while she told her Father, the man couldn't afford it and she asked "Dad, when you know you can't take care of me, why did you bring me to life?" This question touched the man but I believe the man didn't have control over his situation then and no one can blame anyone except if we aren't taking steps to move out of such life.

Yes, we all want life to be automatically good to us, we want to be entitled to everything because we think we didn't beg our parents to bring us to life, but we are here now, all we have to do is to allow our consciousness to be awaken and realize reality itself is cruel and good most times and we need to accept that fact. No one wants to be poor and strive to survive, but since life has dealt with us and do not have control over it, we only need to see things in different perspective and embrace life as it is, then we should take actions.

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I can relate to the experience of your aunt there. The truth is that we can never blame ourselves for having that sense of entitlement. When we are not responsible for our choices then the least we can hope for is that these choices favours us. So many people have been bereft of good things in life and one of the reasons why it is more saddening is because we didn't choose to be breft and lacking of all the good things of life.
But like you have said sometimes we'll let her pain derived from the sense of entitlement to blind us from the fact that it is an unforgettable experience to actually exist, thrive and feel the beauty of being alive.
The world is filled with too many sad occurrences. People who are stigmatized and others because of their conditions and these conditions are not actually of their own making. We cannot be strong at all times because it's okay to be weak and pained when we don't get everything we deserve from life.

Thanks for your brilliant comment. 🔥

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It is a lucky day I guess I could watch the video. Otherwise my sweet network is quite lazy 🙄

I remind me of a quote, "it is not your fault if you are born poor, however it is your fault if you die poor."
There came a time in my life when I developed so many complaints for being in the wrong circumstances. This mindset only worsened my mental and physical condition. I felt more lack of control.

What I have realized with time There are certain things in life that are not in our control, but there are many things that are in our control. But a preoccupation with those that we can't change snatches from us the opportunity to bring betterment in many other.

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Some people would like to control or rule their destiny, predetermine their existence and this is always because, life turned out differently, in ways we can't even begin to fathom. When people experience bad luck, they question the reasons for their existence. Most times, this is determinant on how well or how badly the life of a person eventually turns out. We cannot even begin to fathom.
Thanks for dropping by and watching.

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Everything doesn't always turn out according to our desires. There is a saying of a MUSLIM scholar. "I recognized the existence of God by the failures of my will."

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Omooo you really burst my head here.

If I may add, there is this popular saying that when life gives you lemons, make lemonades.

As you said, since we didn’t choose where to be born or which family we should be born to, that shouldn’t be the cause of our downfall. I know people that used their environment to bring themselves out of situations. People from poor backgrounds getting rich and even those from riches ending up poor.

This is where choices come from. Make the right choices to get the right results.

DON’T LET YOUR BACKGROUND PUT YOUR BACK ON THE GROUND

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This is absolutely true but many people don't even know how to begin to make these lemonades. They're too encapsulated with what they don't have, they actually begin to lose the essence of living. We're not totally autonomous in our choices, especially since we cannot create ourselves. But then, anyone who is born is privileged to witness the beauty of being alive and this alone is something we can bask on in our times of troubles. Thanks for stopping by bro.

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Omo boss you wan use English scatter my head.

Let me end with this....
“Ones there’s life, there is surely hope “

Thanks for this piece

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😅, no now, I no speak grammar, Na the way e be na.

Thanks for watching bro, hope your side day okay?

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This is a very beautiful message and one that we should repeat as often as possible. Our circumstances don't define us, we have the power to manifest things, so if we're going through a rough patch and feel like life is being unfair, we should really ponder why we're we having the experience we're having. There are teachings in all things, in all peoples, places and trades. Circumstance is like the book and its letters, we can't change the book, only read it, and in order to really read them, that is, to understand the message that it's imparting us and integrate it into our awareness, we must first accept the book's existence, no fuss, just realize that, yeah, this is the world and this is what's happening and there's nothing we can do about it, but we can definitely do something about how we approach it. We can resist or we can let go.

Surrendering to the Flow of Creation is difficult, scary. But once we start doing it willingly, thankfully, we begin to realize just how well-designed and supportive this Universe is, and that gives us a different perspective on our story, even our traumas, hatreds and regrets. There's Love all around and within us, but we can't put conditions on it and receive it in full at the same time. We can't have our cake and eat it too, we have to give.

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I believe questions do occur like that sometime especially when facing hard times and challenges in life which sometimes looks unbearable to bear and this has sometimes make some people regret to be born to a particular family because of the sufferings they are going through. But the truth be told we are definitely born for a reason which we may not throughly know why but the heavenly father knows which is why it is sometimes good to challenge yourself to overcome hardtimes to achieve positive results and also to try to be greater than what your family didn't achieve to surpass such scenario, that definitely will keep one motive to eradicate the such hard situation in life.

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The operators doing V2K with remote neural monitoring want me to believe this lady @battleaxe is an operator. She is involved in the same discord groups around @fyrstikken and friends. Her discord is Battleaxe#1003. Shes in some groups with seemingly detached characters that dont even acknowledge the others in the group, looking oddly staged. She starts projects and does nothing with it or the delegations after its used to sway people. Like @steempowertwins does<------fake along with her @teamgood <------fake. No substance in her comments and has a following that adores her for what? Life coach she is not nor is she insightful with any meaningful skills to follow. Ruler of pixie dust maybe? I would like for someone to show me but probably wont out fear maybe? @fyrstikken groups around him down voted me into censored and not viewable on my accounts as soon I told what they were doing.
I cant prove @battleaxe is the one directly doing the V2K and RNM. Doing it requires more than one person at the least. It cant be done alone. She cant prove she is not one of the ones doing V2K because she cant and could care less. I guarantee she knows this is going around and still wont prove it because she cant. Many of us here can prove what they have been doing to survive the past 5 years. What does she live off of? It definitely isnt in public view here.

I was drugged in my home covertly, it ended badly. They have been trying to kill me using RNM with applied V2K mental games while revealing as many accessories to the crime as they can. I bet nobody does anything at all. Ask @battleaxe to prove it. I bet she wont. Pretty serious accusations to just blow off and leave the crypto community hanging in fear of this danger.

They want me to believe the V2K and RNM in me is being broadcast from her location. And what the fuck is "HOMELAND SECURITY" doing about this shit? I think stumbling over their own dicks maybe? Just like they did and are doing with the Havana Syndrome. They should start by looking at the communications between the top witnesses of Hive and the connection to @fyrstikken groups. Google his fucking name and see where his other interests lie around at least once maybe? The connections between @fyrstikken groups and all the exchanges built for Hive? Bet that would reveal some crazy ball less nutty shit. Homeland security should start preparing for their own incarcerations seeing how sloppy this was done. Patriot act my ass. Think we are really fools? Bad position your not getting out of. Dont be last to blow the whistle. Who will protect you?

People in and around @fyrstikkens groups are reckless and should have shown the proper media what they had before taking me hostage for 5 long torturing years and counting. That is a long time to wait for someone to die.

What would you say while having a gun pointed at your head from an undisclosed location? Have people find it? My hands are tied while they play like children with a gun to my head. Its a terrorist act on American soil while some yawn and say its not real or Im a mental case. Many know its real. This is an ignored detrimental to humanity domestic threat. Ask informed soldiers in the American military what their oath is and why nothing is being done. Nobody has I guess. Maybe someone told ill informed soldiers they cant protect America from military leaders in control that have ill intent. How do we protect locked up soldiers prevented from telling the truth from being treated as criminals? Not to mention civilians we let our leaders treat the same way. https://ecency.com/fyrstikken/@fairandbalanced/i-am-the-only-motherfucker-on-the-internet-pointing-to-a-direct-source-for-voice-to-skull-electronic-terrorism-terrorism

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