ecoTrain QOTW Season 8.6 FINALE: What Prevents Action?
When you refuse to quarrels with anyone, you are stopping some irrelevant actions to take place, and that is preventing, to prevent something we must put ourselves in the thing and see the best possible way of stopping that which we intended to prevent.
They was a times when me and my famy were living in someone's compound, that was when i realized that being a tenant is so troublesome and i was like, i Wish i am capable to buy my family a house, the landlord was so troublesome, he and his family was something not to take home about, they always want to quarrels with my parents but my parents could always follow them with good manners and this was how we lived in that compound, but come to think of it, we were like praising them all in the name of landlord, because we never for once do something that would make us happy but all we could ever think, do and see was for their own benefit.
One day, my Dad said that he is tired living and pleasing someone despite paying for the accommodation we are staying.
He said, is high time we moved out of house
and start packing our things and so was it, we moved out of that house and we were save of their unnecessary embarrassment and insult, my parents could now have peach of mind in our new resident and it was not long, my Dad was given a contract of seven million naira, to take charge of maintenance in their organization, that was how we were able to have a house of our own, after my Dad had finished the project in the organization, he used the remaining money in buying land and building a two bed room flat.
We could now called ourselves house owners, even now, i always applaud my parents for taking the action they took and avoiding to embarrassing themselves more, they know their place and they leave it that way and never look down on their level, keep believing that oneday they would be over their challenges, Keep putting their head in their work and waiting for their time to come.
Preventing something to happens would make you face many fears, as you will be putting your self below something while allowing someone to get above your ego, to me, i see this as doing it and Becoming a saddis, when you put yourself below something you are above but you choose to stay low with it, honestly, you can never be happy about it, looking at it now and seeing that me and my family were able to pass through this challenges is a thing of joy.
We never for once allow it to crops us down and put us to our feet rather we believe that oneday we would rise up and so was it, preventing action is indeed a kind of sacrifice but it worth it when it turn out good and would surely put a smile on your face and all that you treasures.
congrats to your dad and your family.. very happy to see you overcame fear and were successful!
Thank you so much Sir, it wasn't easy at first but we over come it.