Ponder and move on : It is okay not to be okay

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Experience is gotten from every phase of life.
Some are very pleasant and memorable ones, while some are not just it.

Life doesn't teach me early, not to be hard on myself for a lot of things.

That doesn't mean that I have had the most unpleasant stories or have lived for that long.
Yes, I am still young, learning, and growing.

I just want to highlight a few things, I have come to understand in life.

Life will pressure you with peer pressure, classmates, friends, and people around us.

Society will make you doubt and question your existence in many ways.

Growing up, adolescence stage will make you think about a lot of shits.
That shouldn't be worried about.
You even wish for some certain things that are burdensome without your knowledge.

Being worried about having a small breast and comparing yours with your peers.
Praying and wishing for your period to come quickly.
And lots more, that are very funny.

The pressure increases as an adult.
Thinking about establishments, responsibilities hits hard.

Pressure to get married and give birth quickly.
The heat to remind in an abusive marriage, making divorce a deadly flu.

And "what people will think".

This is certainly what drains us more.

You focus more on what people will think, while you go through much pains and distress.

And when you die, they mourn and blame you.
It is still on you.

We all have the phase, and if we can be sincere, most things won't be a problem in life.

Life is to be enjoyed and not to be endured.

No matter what our emotions and feelings swings to, we should enjoy that version of ourselves.

Most times, I get so much angry at emotions and feelings because it can lead to an unpleasant path when nurtured wrongly.

Lately, a friend was discussing how she was pushed to getting married because of a belief that once you are more than 26 in their family, no one will marry you again.
So, it is best to marry before you are 26 years old.

This made her marry at 25, now she is deeply questioning her decision.
But she can't turn back time.

Life will always happen.
We will continue to live.

Thank you very much for reading and sharing your thoughts and opinions at the comment section.

Continue to enjoy your day with amazing memories 😊