Rebirth

Reincarnation : a rebirth of a soul from afterlife, I watch this a lot in movies and it sometimes makes me reflect or should I say imagine, if there is truly reincarnation, if I was once in a previous life, what I looked like, who I was friends with and so on.

A friend of mine usually says that most things that happen to her has either appeared in her dream, or she sometimes feel it's a repetition so it makes me feel like those are the people really reincarnated into this world.

Back to the question of the day, if I were to come back to life , I want to believe I will still choose my life, definitely my gender and of course my family, they mean everything to me.

I will love to remain a lady if there was anything like that, I can't imagine been a man, there are lot of advantages of been a lady, though people will run from it because of monthly flow stress, child birth and others will say women are been segregated in certain fields, for instance Nigerian politics.

We are still hoping for a miracle, where we will be able to celebrate a female governor and most especially president in Nigeria, but I feel that's going to be looked into soon cause we here of countries where those things are not even issues, and now that we have a lot of female C.E.O's the female world commands more respect, like they say; what a man can do, a woman can do better.

Generally, when you see a car break down as a man and the driver is a lady, the tendency to want to help comes naturally, unlike when it's a man, there is this special favor that comes with been a lady, a lot of times I've received help when I get stock, simply because I'm a female. The love is simply massive, I wouldn't want to dwell on this but I'm sure a lot of female understand this.

Another thing I wouldn't want to change is my parents and of course my siblings, I have this feeling that my parents would have been richer, if not for the fact that they put there all into taking care of their kids, there is this my dad's friend that believes he should leave his life and the kids should sort themselves, he was able to buy different houses and buy cars, but today, none of his kids have his time, even his wife left him, on my sister's wedding day, he told my dad that he regretted all his actions, because now his life is so boring, he practically cooks for himself except for eatery, funny enough, he is no longer as rich as he used to now and he can't redeem time.

My parents do all they can to ensure we got educated and never have to starve. Through out my higher institution days, I never had school fees payment issues, some of my friends thought I was a rich kid, but it was the lord's doing, another reason I won't joke with my family is the friendship, the love and togetherness, we all still keep in touch frequently cause we are one another's friend. The way we all grow up to command so much respect in the area and yet we were not always flogged like put neighbors who still end up into Yahoo and stuff, still baffles me, I'm super grateful for my family and wouldn't trade it for anything.

Now if there is one thing I may want to change about my background is to add wealth to it, I know we aren't poor, but we could be wealthy, you know like leave in a mansion, have a private jet and all, but on a second thought, maybe all this love won't be there if I was that wealthy. Also I might not want to be a Nigerian, maybe I would prefer being a white kid, grow up in the U.S😂.

I still believe my visit abroad will change that narrative. I love my life and I wouldn't want to change my past, I'll just hope for a better tomorrow. All pictures on this post are mine.
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