Don't Try Harder

At times, we find ourselves doing so much for a person, only to realize that the amount of investment we are putting in isn't what the person is doing, worst of all, the person isn't even trying to invest in what they have going on with each other.

Instead of putting in more work and effort trying to make what isn't working, work trying to convince the person that we could do anything, and be anyone they want us to be just to prove our love for them and how it could work, it's best we take a walk out of their lives.

Stop doing more for someone who doesn't see or already see our value and worth, and doing more or trying to work our butt out for someone who doesn't see our worth and value doesn't as well mean that it is a guarantee that it will work out. So, never beg anybody for love, it doesn't work, and it doesn't get better. No matter how hard you try, they will never see you or your worth, so take a bow and walk out of such person because they don't deserve you and there is someone out there who does.

Let's all learn not be with anyone who doesn't want us, who wants us to continually prove our love to doubt because of their doubt and insecurities issues. No matter how much we do for a person if they are not invested in you like you are in them, whatever you are doing to make them see you is meaningless because they don't want you and as such they don't see us neither do they know how value or worth.

Many people settle for less because we are made to believe that they can not and won't find someone who will and is ready to put as much work as they are doing, we are made to believe that we aren't perfect as such, we should settle for what we have even when it is not what we want and we are not comfortable with their attitudes towards us.

Fun fact, we will find that one person, we will meet that one person, because we are beautiful, smart and enough for anyone who wants us and just so we know people have the right to want what they want even if what they want isn't us. It's a choice, and it's high time we learn to make a choice and be selfish with our choice because we have the right to every good things and life.