stop it, the bad effects of bullying can be fatal for the victim

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Bullying is still an important problem that must be solved, even the victims of this problem are increasing all the time, many of whom are children, and the negative impact of bullying is that it can disturb someone's mentality especially if it happens to children, even in some cases. something that is very unfortunate, many of the victims of bullying end up committing suicide, this often happens in public places such as schools and other places, and nowadays this kind of action also often happens on social media.


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Luckily until now I still haven't felt the effects of bullying, once when I was still in school, a group of older brothers came to me and asked me for money, luckily I was mentally strong at that time so I could overcome the problem and they didn't come to me again forever.

One of my school friends became a victim of bullying, every day at school I always saw him being bullied by a group of other school children, he was always the target of bullying, many children at school did not dare to help him for fear of being bullied by the group, until one day I asked my friend who was the victim of bullying, "why are you just silent when they are bothered by them" then he replied "I don't dare to take the risk, they can beat me if I fight back", then I left while walking away. said "if you keep silent then you will forever be oppressed by others".

After a few days my friend came to me, he asked what he should do to stop the actions of the bullying group, then I gave advice against them, "it's okay if you lose a fight one day to avoid being bullied all the time" , sure enough, the next day i saw him fighting and the group beat him in turn, and he also managed to throw punches at the bullies, until i finally shouted "hey i'll report to the principal if you guys don't stop fighting", then they all running away from my friend.

A few days later he and my friend came back to me, he told me that the bullies never bothered him again, and I told him one thing "you should know that bullies are cowards, they only annoy people who don't dare to fight back".


My advice, if someone annoys you then don't be silent, do whatever can make the bullies reluctant to come again, they bullies have thoughts, and vice versa we do, of course there are many ways to avoid such inappropriate treatment. , especially in all countries that have laws, if you get an act of bullying then talk about it with your friends or family, if necessary then immediately report it to the authorities.

Note: this is just my story experience when dealing with bullies, I don't recommend readers to follow my way, maybe there are other more effective ways to stop them, please think again.

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Yeah... bullies are cowards indeed. Because the day you choose to fight back will be the day they leave you alone for good.
Thank you for sharing this with us.

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Bullying is on a rampage because people have learnt to continuously take laws into their hands. I thinks if we stop taking laws into our hands there will be great difference.

Thanks for sharing

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I really agree with what you said, the cases of bullying are increasing day by day and it has a very negative impact on the children's mentality if they continue to be left alone, in this case the parent factor is really needed to always supervise their children and if they get awkward, immediately find out why

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Do you know the legal name of @themarkymark ???? It is needed to contact his local police station. Any information to his whereabouts would be much appreciated.

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