Week 153 | Doing it or not

Greetings dear readers today I give life and love to my blog ❤️ with my participation in the week 153 of @galenkp, where the topic I chose brought me pleasant memories and not so many, being so I give answer to:

Doing it or not

Your best friend's partner (whom you find very attractive) starts flirting with you and then suggests a one-night stand. Your friend will never find out. Do you do it or don't you? This needs to be your own opinions and thoughts on the matter, not a fictional story. Write 300 + words using pictures you personally photographed when possible..

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DEFINITELY NO

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After my first formal relationship my life took an unexpected turn, I have always believed that I am a woman who is not liked at first sight, but it is enough for friends to see me in action, talking, singing, dancing, laughing to start throwing me the typical flowers.

This began to happen when my social ties expanded, especially in the dance companies and cultural life where I have developed, these spaces lend themselves to show the feminine charms where more than one can create fantasies and seductions.

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It happened to me with the manager husband of my first dance teacher, he was one of those who would make naughty comments in meetings in dressing rooms or in the office, he sought to engage in conversations where we all expressed intimacies or double entendre comments, he asked questions that made me uncomfortable, to which I did not respond for not knowing what to say, but sometimes because of the harassment I would respond aggressively embarrassing him in front of the others.

I stopped attending precisely because of that situation and because the group itself was already ceasing to be a projection group, he called me on several occasions on behalf of the teacher to tell me to return because there were new repertoires and that I had been chosen for these projects, my answers were totally limiting, and my great mitigating factor was that I had already begun fourth level studies and ventured into other genres of dance.

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The same thing happened with the director of a ballroom dance company with the genre of salsa, he was very handsome but he was my teacher married to a dancer who made life in the same group, and that limits did not cross no matter how excited they are instincts. He said that I had great potential and wanted to have me in the professional team, little by little he was preparing me to the point of being able to go to events and dance next to his wife, who at some point told him in front of all his annoyance for the preference he gave me.

My boyfriend at that time was also part of the team of dancers and was very upset by what he saw, saying that it was me who provoked him, this disengaged me pushing me to withdraw from the company being also an extenuating factor for the relationship to come to an end. The teacher privately confessed to my partner at the time that I was the living portrait of someone he loved and therefore his valuation of me, when he told me this alarmed me and prompted me to withdraw.

Over time I thought that the power of unconscious seduction had diminished, until I joined another dance group where I had a divine affinity with two beautiful homosexual partners, dancing we were integrated souls with extreme communication, yet we were all clear of our sexual preference respecting our spaces and intimacy. On several occasions I expressed to them: "my loves, what a pity that in this life we can't be together, we really shared hilarious moments laughing and supporting each other, my two loves went to Spain where they are happy and freer than ever.

After a long time retired from the world of dance, I am currently resuming the unpretentious practice of the show and stage, I am doing it to stay active and continue to recognize my traditional roots. And in this new space once again my unconscious seduction power activated another little antenna, during expressive outbursts one of my partners has been making me a naughty comment about my beauty and way of dancing.

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He is a very handsome dancer and husband of one of my partners, his jocularity and sincerity has no limits and at some point he confessed to me that he told his wife how delighted he was with my presence, a situation that impacted me and I thanked him without further confidence, she is a beautiful girl, I bless their relationship to which I make the cross to keep this stud away from my life.

So I would definitely NOT fall into such a situation, for if there is one thing I have learned it is : Don't do to others what you wouldn't want done to you.

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