WE 137 Excuses for your bad behavior
Greetings dear readers today I give life and love to my blog 💗 with my consecutive participation in @galenkp's weekend engagement. This time the question I chose has a lot to do with the past proposal and that's why I decided to take it on, because in that wave of lies and truths about us, this is another showcase to show myself honest and without a mask.
I rarely offer excuses because I try to go through life doing good for myself and humanity. I face my mistakes with responsibility and as I am not perfect I thank the one who is in front of me to make me see it, as long as it is in good manners. Causing harm to others is one of the things I promise myself daily not to do, however, I am not exempt from causing discomfort with my actions.
Usually if I realize the damage I have caused, I immediately and without hesitation offer apologies, if the other person wants to accept it is fine, but if he/she does not accept it I leave under his/her responsibility what he/she feels. By this I mean that I do not fall into emotional blackmail or provocations, by saying sorry I offer my balm and my affective hand to any wound I have caused, but if the other does not want to accept it and remains hooked on the subject, for me it is the end of the story and maybe even the end of the relationship.
Anecdote: he did not accept my apology
One day this week I was walking down the street among a large crowd of people, and with my hurried and long stride I pulled the back of a lady's shoe, I immediately stopped for a few seconds and told her: Sorry madam, it was not my intention, are you all right?, the angry lady offered me blows and curses, to avoid further trouble I immediately changed sidewalks without uttering words.
There have been some occasions where I have not been aware of some bad action I have done according to the perception of others, and they have chosen to stop talking to me or distance themselves from me, and the truth from my heart... it has not affected me nor have I been curious to know what the reasons were.
This can happen to me again at any time, and I am open to it. If the affected person comes to me with the best intentions to express his feelings, I listen kindly and in silence, and if I feel he has reasons for my fault, I consider it without hesitation, nor discussion or explanation offering my apology, and with that I consider myself absolved, but what I am against is manipulations, dramas and sterile stories, there I automatically withdraw and turn the page.
The truth is, some people get offended for nothing, so you can't expect everyone to forgive you, but that's fine, I don't mind. As long as your intention was not to cause harm, it's ok. Nice write-up.
Yes, beautiful @erikah there are many people who walk defensively on the street. It is normal in these times of war, people bet less on kindness and more aggression for any reason. Thank you for coming I hug you 💕 from Venezuela 🇻🇪
Amiga, that's how it is, we are not a gold coin for everyone to like us, but that doesn't mean that we are doing something wrong, we just have different ways of thinking. Sometimes we also have to face people that bring a lot of problems and they pay for it with the first one that crosses them... it has happened to me. Bless you and move forward to clean those bad energies. Thanks for your post, a hug.
En general la gente está muy agresiva en la calle, y parece contagioso...buena actitud de disculparse y seguir adelante, soltando lo que pasó.
Me encanta tu honestidad 😃👍