WE 112 weekend-engagement concept | nickname give or received MIRIDI

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Greetings dear readers today I give life and love to my blog with the consequent weekend initiative, proposed by @galenkp to which I have not attended for 20 days, sorry friend, the truth is that I was closing work cycle to enter vacations, yes! my favorite time of the year, here I am a little more relaxed also recovering from a health situation, to activate me by participating with this fun question.

Nickname give or received

Do you have a nickname or nickname that someone else gave you? What is it and why did they give it to you? Or, have you given someone else a nickname that stuck? What is it and how did they earn it?

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Relationships between siblings can sometimes be integrated between that duality of love and hate that gives a certain jocular sarcasm to coexistence and that in the eyes of others may seem that these blood relatives are enemies, but really what abounds between them is sweet and brotherly love where it is possible to endure misfortune without complaining.

I have 3 brothers and I am the only female, my parents always instilled in them to take care of me to the shadow thing to which I have always reacted with rejection planting me with much character for the respect of my space and life, situation that they have understood releasing affection towards me that relate to family repression.

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That has been a work of hormiguita that has its good results, because of that relationship they have conferred me nicknames like: gordis, minita, hermita, herma and miri this last nickname has been the most consistent for 35 years and the one who created it was my younger brother.His creativity knows no bounds when it comes to nicknames, he has a dark sense of humor that I can pee myself laughing at and he expresses his neutral question, "What are you laughing at?

We can have very serious conversations as two congruent adults responsible for their opinions, but at some point when there is no more to say, we start a back-and-forth between tell me and tell me, distorting some comment looking for a healthy conflict with which we end up laughing out loud.

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Now regarding the nickname MIRI, this arose in my adolescence when I fell in love for the first time, the boy was super funny, witty, full of a mischievousness like no other, which attracted me to his personality as well as his intellectuality because he was a philosopher, for everything he had a word that allowed me to enter into deep reflections with him, besides that we shared a special affinity for art.

He and other boys and girls were part of a band of playful boys who met every night in front of the house, from there came our romance that we decided to keep secret to avoid reaching the ears of my father who hated it. But my brothers did know about our relationship and accepted it, asking us to be prudent. By then my younger brother had a pleasant relationship with him, they played basketball, rubber ball, board games, and between their gatherings they ended up arguing with funny counterpoints on any topic.

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One day when my brother saw us in those moments of romance, saying ornate words to each other, he couldn't stop laughing, making fun of us, trying to imitate our gestures with so much grace that all of us in the clan ended up gloating with laughter. My ex and I always used pampering words preceded by the possessive pronoun MI, for example: my negra, my ñeñe, my chiquito, my superart. That was a source of mockery and laughter for my brother telling us that we were ridiculous in height.

The word ridiculous here in Venezuela refers to things that make you laugh, are strange or grotesque in the sight of others, apart from that its last two syllables refer to the anus (excretory duct) which makes the word more mocking. So from then on, who was my boyfriend, assumed it with grace and lightness, and because of the confidence he had with my brother, with hugs and mannered gestures he called him saying: My ridiculous come here!...

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That situation made me uncomfortable every time he saw us in romance he expressed in front of the others that What a ridiculous! When he listened to me carefully, he ended up telling me with more sarcasm: - Ah well then how do you want me to tell them mirri, a noooo I'd better take your ass and leave the rest to you, Miridi you sound more amorous then!.

At that moment it was impossible to reach a serious agreement and we ended up in a loud laughter, my ex also found the nickname super funny and creative, overlooking what I considered serious. Some time later that relationship ended, but not precisely because of the nickname, it was a time of great joy and enjoyment that occurred during the passage from adolescence to adulthood.

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This word between my younger brother and I as a nickname, since then we are MIRIDI, in fact, today I use it to establish some keys with other characters, for example my email [email protected] with that MIRIDI I have even made improvised songs and advertising for produJodo to which we can continue to take advantage.


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Having your siblings be friends with your partner can be very troublesome some times. Especially if your siblings have a good sense of humor (I’m speaking from experience😅). The teasing never ends.

You’d think that this means it’s best when your siblings have no relationship or friendship with your partner but I’d say this was even worse(from experience too lol).

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Oh yes I lived it many times those two were very witty and sometimes they would join in with me being the reason for their jokes. I really tried not to take it to heart. Although I also took advantage of that confidence many times 😎 hahahaha

Thanks for coming 😘

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I can relate to the siblings giving names. That is too crazy I have some nicknames given by my younger brother too which is kinda embarrassing to say in front but holds dear if he will say it as we are not used to calling in our real names ever since that we got older.

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Brothers 😁
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@evev gordis, hermanita,minita 😜 I like that you be the only sister of your 3 brothers, i like the humor and sascarm between us. I like the love between you. I senda a kiss for you💐

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@mosa71 con miridi es que soy villana el despierta lo peor de mi, con ustedes soy melcochita capachera 😎 otro apapacho pa"ti

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the brothers and their things ok, if they invent hehehehe but if as you say, even if we are different will always be our brothers, well you have a nickname with a story to tell jiji, cheers

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