THERE'S NO BOND LIKE THE ONE SHARED BETWEEN SIBLINGS

As the last daughter of the family and last child of the family, most times I do accuse my mother that why me, why don't you have another child after me.

I guess most last born can relate with me, in my house I am always burdened with house chores, from sweeping to mopping the floor and going to kitchen to prepare meal for the family.

I have four brothers but when it comes to work in the house please remove them from the list, they prefer to be pressing phones when I am working even some will not even come out of their rooms unless food is ready.

There was one particular December that I nearly collapse because of work, we have a very big compound and a big sitting room at that, sweeping the sitting room alone can break someone's back not to talk of the compound, my brothers will not even look at you all they will say is weldone oooo, what are we eating today and so on.

Growing up as the last born of the house is so annoying most times when it comes to house chores, washing of dishes is certain for me because no one will wash dishes for you and that is the worst chores I hate doing when I was growing up especially washing of pots, I do not like it at all.

Another thing I dislike about my siblings is that they are too demanding, one can tell you let's eat swallow another one will let's make grains while another one will demand for another thing entirely, I do question my mother why am I the last born of this family because I know if we are two that is younger we can share the chores among ourselves and it will not affect anyone of us.

Apart from the house chores, I enjoyed every moment shared with my siblings, I am not regretting being the last born at all because I have enjoyed them in so many ways like buying gifts for me, sending money into my account and anything I call on anyone of them they are always responding to help at any giving time.

Another thing I enjoyed when I am with my siblings was the way they lecture me about guys, the keep my head straight and always protecting me from getting into the wrong hands. They are always there for me when I need advice from them and I do not keep secret from them, apart the house chores I enjoy being with my siblings, gisting with them and sharing with me their past experience about relationships.

Growing up being the last born of the house is so annoying until some of them are leaving the house for a greener pasture and when I got admission I know my burden is lifted, I remembered when I was about to leave house for school, my mum shed tears and says I will really missed you because you are the only helper I have in this house, I was moved by that statement and she decided to hire someone that will help.

When I got admission like I said the burden was lifted because I only come home when the school is on break, and it is only December because that is the season to merry, the other holiday I will be in school to work and gather money for myself, so the workload at home is not that much anymore since we have helper so I only assist her anytime I am around.

The last time I introduced my fiance to my brothers they all warned him and told him that I am the apple of their eyes that if he treats me anyhow he will have them to contend with, my siblings are good I begin to realized that when I am growing but when it comes to working at home forget it oo.

Being the last child when growing up is so stressful at first I thought my mother hated me not knowing she was building me for the future, now I am enjoying every bit of it because I see it as a way of modifying myself, recreating myself into the woman I want to become, I see any work as a work over now, I don't feel lazy to work, now I am used to cleaning, washing my dishes when cooking and washing them after meals, this has really helped me I don't know I was training myself up those period of working at home.

This is my entry for this week episode of #hl-w69e1 and also thank you all for taking your precious time to read through my blog.