When They Talk Sweet, They are Manipulating You
Often, we find that in the society where we see people talking sweet to us. Furthermore, when they do 99 percent of the time, they want to manipulate you or have their own agenda behind that. Having sweet talk is often not genuine.
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So what does make people sweet talk with others these days? What are some of the things that make them talk sweet to you? So here in this post, I want to discuss just that.
They do favors that You Don't need but They Want to do for You
If your siblings want to manipulate you, they may ask you to come over for lunch or food. And that is their way of getting the work done from you. They do those favors because food is often the silence breaker and often manipulated.
If you are getting too many lunches or dinner invites, you can guess that there will be some offer or the deal that is coming for you. That happens, be it bloodline or a similar way.
They promise to give you something If you do something for them
People start every such deal by talking sweet and they want to open up by offering something at first and then bring the deal. You have to do something for them, and that is why they seem to be talking sweet and may not even do it because they want to. But they just have their own intention for the deal. That is one reason they will be talking in that tone.
So the people who talk sweet are not always good for us. We have to learn to read people and then decide how and when they seem to be acting good for us.
They change their tone When They Realize You're not Helping Them
Have you noticed the tone of salespeople when they meet you first time vs you meet them for after sales and support time? You may find that they have changed their tone during the after sales time and now that they have your money, they don't care for you anymore.
So they change their tone once they realize that you are no longer serve them any form of benefit. So you may have to keep some distance with them otherwise you may get angry the more you meet such people.
Conclusion
People use sweet talk as a way to manipulate you. And you have to learn the skill of not falling for those tones and moving ahead. It's always a good idea to understand how sweet talk could impact the mind and we have to learn to see through that.
How do you handle the sweet talker people?
Yes, for sure. I'm generally wary of too much niceness. I have an experience with someone who always finds a way to get a repayment whenever she does something nice I didn't ask for. So I've learnt to say no whenever she comes up with an idea or a plan that 'would make my life better' in any way.