Do we choose the person with whom to share our life?

That is very complex because everything will depend on our ability to coexist, how many times we believe we have combined with someone and when we live with that person nothing is the same, perhaps many people can say that they could choose that person with whom they have decided to share their life, or rather it was the other person who chose to be by their side.

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So, who chooses who, this is given from all approaches, that is, there will be cases where we choose us, we choose or simultaneously we choose ourselves, and the other, I know people who were not chosen and for some reason decide to share their lives, in the minds of people there will always be a prototype of person and try to find someone who resembles that image and think that when we meet someone with those qualities we believe that we have chosen.

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The choice of a person to live with, that condition does not guarantee that this relationship will last, in order to be consistent in any choice we have to be clear that nothing is automatic, we can find someone very nice and it does not mean that this person feels the same, so reciprocity is essential in any choice from any point of view especially from the sentimental.

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I think that beyond talking about choosing someone with whom we plan to share a portion or all our life, it is better to let nothing pressure us and if we make the decision to live with someone we have to focus on it, often the close coexistence shows us that everything in life can be built without the need to impose anything on anyone, we can choose an artifact, a piece of furniture, a house, but hardly a person we choose, we only decide to take the vital step to bring our lives closer.