IMPERFECTION:.......

There are alot of things i want to write about in this post but i really don't know were to begin, for a fact i know definitely that all humans aims towards perfection, mind you perfection in this case is from a personal perspective not from your own point of view, i guess this is were complications arises between people, trying to force everyone into the selfsame box as they are in which is not possible...

Talking about perfection from a personal perspective, its much about how well, people want to be with everything they desire, want or need in place, own all the luxury life they crave for perfection's definition would varies from different individual, its like the word good which is a relative term, meaning what's Good to to you can be bad or terrible to someone else, the reason being that people are built differently more so hence the word, what works for Mr A might or might not work for Mr B, so people varies, with different views and opinion to things.

So imagine a society with bunch of these people with everyone longing for themselves, there will be chaos, confusion, complications, selfishness and self centeredness, but since human wants are insatiable, never enough always wanting more, there arises greed, theft, jealousy etc.

Ever heard the phrase beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, meaning beauty can only be defined based on the observers standpoint, so what one sees to be ugly someone else comes and see beauty in it, what is termed rubbish stupid or foolish someone else sees wisdom, sense, creativity etc, all these varies.

There is a saying in my country ....Another man's food is another man's poison what someone else values so much is what someone else will see as trash, i was shocked the other day when i found out that the man who usually comes to our company to take away the trash with his four children all of which use their bare hands to do it, and these place, waste bin is usually messy, but they don't care using their hands to it, but to me that was impossible,

Learn To Relate with people Based on their level of perfection

I have often tried to balance this on my shoulder, i have tried to place myself in people's shoes to understand why they really think, reason and act the way they do, sometimes it really getting to me i can get it, can't seem to wrap my head around it, the reason is this.....i'm someone who has built a system of structures around me, these are principles core values that guides me.....

If its not logical, if its not reasonable, if it doesn't make sense, if i can relate it with life, if its not motivating for more, if its not calculative or creative, if it's not inspiring then it won't make sense to me.

I have two of my closed friends, i observed them doing some things that are not really upto my standards, things that makes me annoy amd i want to react in certain ways but then i realise we are all humans no one is perfect, but even at that some people are not even putting the effort.

All mylife i have been obsessed about VALUE don't know if using the word obsessed made sense there but i have to use that to paint the picture of how i was damn serious about everything i was doing, everything i do was all about growth, personal development, self improvement something to help me become a better version of myself, serous, focused, determined, and going all out for what i want, so when i see people doing things contrary to these principles, i won't take you seriously cause to me you are not serious about improving changing or upgrading to a better version of yourself, a transitioning process of becoming perfect, doing away with all the imperfections.