BUILT DIFFERENTLY
Today someone jokingly made a statement at work that actually reflects my true life, at first it didn't get to me just for me to #reflects on it later on ...like damn, that's true..
Show me your friend and i will tell you who you are, doesn't really work in most cases cause most person are who they are early in life and grow like that
I didn't really concore to that statement cause of another
Show me your friend and i will tell you who you are, Birds of the same feathers flock together...
And so i asked is it possible for two or more people to be together without concurring or acting the same way?, definitely there will be room for influence or behaving in similar way or ways..
YES ITS POSSIBLE, BASED ON A TRUELIFE EVENT
I Have my closest friend, met in our two hundred level in uni, same department and everything, rented a room together and ever since then till after graduation till lived together, but the reality is,
WE ARE BUILT DIFFERENTLY
We have opposite interest literally in everything, we live together but neither of us can influenced the other, now i see this to be so cause we had different upbringing, different perspective about life, different interest in different things, different circumstances surrounding our growing up etc.......
For instance he plays and is a die hard fan of football i'm not, he plays the piano, i play drums, i'm into hive and content creation, dude is clueless, zero interest, most of the time i'm always optimistic and strategizing dude is so relax and care free, i believe in being able to get what you want by working for it, like be intentional and purposeful to get it, dude believes what will be will be, don't bother stressing...
Mind You
I hate to be judgemental cause i'm also a fan of the school of thoughts that says, *what works for 'A' might or might not work for 'B', its different cause everyone is built differently, its sometimes annoying but i just have to be me, focus on being me, and building my self to become my personal best, huge dreams and aspiration, visions that are way bigger than me, and understanding for a fact that life has different shades for different human.
This is a fact i never understood all along growing, so i feel every one was better, more superior than i am, i kinda always feel down struggling with low self esteem for years, untill i began to find my spark and shine, i have to find my own uniqueness and shine.
This i also feel has been one of the reason why some persons envy or jealous one another or keep malice resentment towards each other, which is not suppose to be so, we are wired differently all of these being so because of various factors like i have mentioned above, however this understanding will help guide you in every way relating with every human you come accross and also keep you running up on your own lane.
