Ladiesofhive contest #202

Hello everyone, how are you doing?

It is with great pleasure that I welcome you to my blog. I will be responding to @amberkashif questions.

1️⃣ Given the influence of global beauty standards on our perceptions of hair, many individuals strive for thick and strong hair to achieve their desired styles. Hair loss can be particularly distressing and is often perceived as a significant issue. Have you experienced hair loss yourself? If so, how did it impact your emotional well-being? Were you able to identify an effective solution, or have you found ways to cope with it calmly and confidently?

Like they say in my side "the hair is the beauty of a woman", it's usual to see women striving to maintain their hair to suit their looks. A lot of things can lead to hair loss like

Switching from one hair product to another

Hairstyles that pull the hair tightly

In 2019 while serving I had to change my hair dresser like we usually call them, after getting my hair done at her place over and over I noticed my hair started breaking, whenever I comb it breaks even more, the front hair started reducing. At first I was scared considering what I have heard and seen online about health issues that leads to hair loss, I was a bit worried, I told a fellow corper and she said probably the last time I relaxed my hair maybe the woman didn't wash it very well, that I should have rewashed it again when I got home, this has never happened with my former hairdresser.

When we had holiday, this was the first thing my mum noticed, my hair was not equal again, my mum said my hair is not used to changing of hands, that was the first time I was hearing that, is it possible that I changed location and I won't make my hair for fear of hair loss.

Now if I relax hair with hairdresser I still wash it again by myself, since they try to manage shampoo so they can still have their own gain, to save myself from hair breakage I rewash till I feel it's okay. With this method the hair loss stopped and I feel happy about it.

2️⃣ Quality conversation is widely regarded as a crucial component in building and strengthening relationships. In your opinion, what constitutes a quality conversation? What elements do you believe enhance the quality of our interactions? Could you share a personal experience where improving the quality of your conversation led to a noticeable improvement in your relationship?

Communication is very important in a relationship and at the same time one needs to have quality conversations, exchanging ideas and listening to each other(which I call having listening ears)

Allowing one's partner to have their own opinion and not thinking of winning every argument all the time. In the process of speaking your mind, don't try to hurt each other's feelings.

Source

Listening to understand not just to respond, be intentional and have empathy for one another.

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