My values changed and reinforced my Minimalism

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There are times when I see certain things I used to do in the past and chuckle. I laugh because so much time has passed and looking back I realized how much of my values have really changed.

People whose values probably haven't changed still do these things and those who have been saved from those burdens have embraced minimalism and they can testify that their lives have been much better.

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For a lady, a relatable example would be shoes. We tend to buy them and keep buying and buying non-stop. When the next models come or our friends are wearing those, we have this insatiable desire to hunt for more shoes to feel among. In the end, our homes get clogged, and filled up, there's no breathing space, and the air around us starts to feel suffocating.

In the past, once you step into my home, you'll find a lot of things taking up space and I can hoard without restraint. I had more shoes than I could possibly want to wear at a time. Dad always asked why I am buying another of such shoes when I already have one that looked just like that. I loved those wedges, and I couldn't pass by any new one that looks charming and dreamy. So I'll always buy. Wear it to one Sunday service and then look for other ones to wear the next Sunday.

The ones that get repeated meant I love them so much and I did not mind wearing them over and over again.

Once I decided less is more, I got rid of those things. I decided it was enough. I did not really need all that number of shoes to look good. Having so many of them meant spaces were taken and I couldn't breathe in good air. The dust, the cobwebs, and the tiny insects that accumulated as days went by and I deserted the old ones were enough to tell me I needed a change

Right now, if you walk into my space, you'll find three shoes, one for daily routine, one for church, and the other for emergencies or outings.

I have had to wake up to less and enjoy the air that's no longer suffocating. And no specks of dust or cobwebs pilling up in the corner as it gets easier to clean up spaces that aren't crowded.


As my contribution to the #kiss prompt for the week, I choose to mix all the prompts together into one. I hope you enjoyed reading it. Please leave a comment if you did. Thank you



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I got hooked on your gutter story. There is only so much crap we can dump into the system before the system becomes crap. Most systems are now crap beyond repair. We need more than a good plumber. Personally we to stop paying for crap. This article would be even more effective if some of those items you went without or left behind were listed as an example of minimalism. A lot of us are in the same ship and your story can encourage us to get rid of more crap.

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Smile.

Surely, minepoly, there's only so much we can dump into the system to turn it into crap.

We definitely have to stop paying for craps and you are right, I should have added those things.

In the past, once you step into my home, you'll find a lot of things taking up space and I can hoard without restraint. Once I decided less is more, I got rid of those things.

For a lady, a relatable example would be shoes. We tend to buy them and keep buying and buying non-stop. When the next models come or our friends are wearing those, we have this insatiable desire to hunt for more shoes to feel among.

In the end, our homes get clogged, and filled up, there's no breathing space, and the air around us starts to feel suffocating.

Right now, if you walk into my space, you'll find three shoes, one for daily routine, one for church, and the other for emergencies or outings.

I have had to wake up to less and enjoy the air that's no longer suffocating.

Thank you for pointing that too, @mineopoly, I'll do better next time.

Top of the morning to you 🎉🎉

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Only three shoes, for real?

Congratulations. You are close to a master.

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Lol. Yes, for real

Congratulations. You are close to a master.

Hahaha, I do have times the urge to buy more shoes kicks in though... Lol

But thank you

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Hold your tongue and say, "I was born on a pirate ship."

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Lol. I couldn't do it 😂😂😂

I was humming not saying 🤣🤣🤣

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It comes out to something like...

"I was born on a pile of shit."

We are born in this world with a lot of garbage already inherited to us.

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Haha, that's really funny. Plus the children made me smile. Thank you, minepoly

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