The Duality Of Traits: Good And Bad

Hello friends!
Happy weekend to everyone!
It has been a long time since I participated in the weekend engagement post in this community. I needed a lot of attention offline, and I just feel it's worth giving myself a break from social media.

But I'm here to participate once again in one of the topics listed by @galenkp.
As a human with blood running through my veins and neurons coordinating my responses, I have a good and bad trait, and it would be a lie if I denied the impact on my life, either positively or negatively.

I would love to start with my worst trait, though that doesn't mean that I'm more bad than good.

PROCRASTINATION
Time they say waits for nobody, but in my own case, I always think of the opposite. I draft and plan my days ahead every weekend, only to end up not meeting the demands and goals I set for the day.

It will be a lie if I say that it doesn't affect me badly because, as a university student, each work I fail to complete at its due time always affects my future plans for other days. It has really affected my timetable and the task I'm expected to finish at the end of the day.

Though it affects me badly, I still learn something good from it. Sometimes, when I fail to complete my daily tasks on time, I always end up working under pressure, and it has actually helped me to understand how strong I am.

GOOD TRAITS

I have more good, noticeable traits than bad ones. One of them is

CURIOSITY
I'm always curious about what will happen next or how things are supposed to be.
Many people do actually complain about it, though, most especially my friends. I always want to know the state of people's wellbeing. I keep asking and asking too many questions all the time, which occasionally makes people accuse me of trying to force words out of their mouths.

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Once I notice the slightest change in someone's mood, I will try everything within my power to know the cause and how it can be resolved.
I was discussing this with one of my female friends on WhatsApp last night. I told her that I needed to know about the sudden change in her cheerfulness recently. She told me that she was fine, but I didn't believe her. I pressed harder to force words out of her mouth, but I ended up complicating issues.
Though sometimes my curiosity has helped me in solving people's problems and my school work because I always want to know more, thereby helping me in increasing my knowledge on certain things,.

FRIENDLY
I'm friendly and accommodating. Though I won't say that I'm that good at relating well with people, especially those of the opposite sex, the few people I have met can attest to the fact that I'm truly friendly.

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I have cool and great friends just because I'm friendly with them. You know that two can't work together unless they agree.

In conclusion, nobody is perfect, and I repeat it again and again. Just find out the good and bad traits about yourself and work on them. I never allowed my bad traits to outweigh my good ones, and I wish you could do the same.
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