Hi #Hivelearners community.
It is true that this holiday season is very special and during these days most of us spend a lot of money and there are some people who spend so much money after that. I face problems so it is better if we have a job and our salary is 200 dollars a month then we have to spend this money very carefully if we here 200 dollars in one day.
How will we spend the whole month if we spend, then this is the best and the wisdom is also in this that we all have the right to enjoy the events but if we are out of our budget and we will do such things.
Later we have to borrow money from people to last the whole month which is not a good thing at all because we heard before today that every time we ask someone to borrow money our dignity is reduced.
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This is what we should keep in our mind and enjoy all such events that if we have 100 dollars, then we should decorate within it and the food of the guests invited to the house etc. all within it. Have to eat. Here now I will share with you the last year so here all of us are spending our whole month earning some money and last month all our friends have decided to travel to another city.
All my friends told me too much to stay there for a few days and have fun. I didn't have money, but still I agreed to them because if I didn't do it, my honor would be damaged. said yes and we all went to a city in the first week of december which is very famous for vacations and people go there to spend their vacations it snows there its called Murree And it's at a pretty high altitude and it snows here,
So each person had about $500 for two weeks, so we made up our minds and we left home. And I had 500 dollars and all that we blew on having fun there. We had a great time with friends. We ate in nice hotels.
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It was going well and after two weeks we went for a walk in many special places, saw snowfall and a little further away there were many beautiful places with scenic views. We went there too and enjoyed life a lot and when we came back home we still had seven to eight full days of salary so it became very difficult to make ends meet because we had all the money.
The ones that were there had blown up and it seemed impossible to spend these seven days now, so there was a lot of trouble, then I also borrowed from some of my friends and the embarrassment was also getting too much, but no one else.
And there was no other option to spend a week. If we all thought about this and reduced our expenses a little, the week I had to worry about wouldn't have happened.
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And I learned a lesson from all these scenarios, which I still apply in my life, that as much as we have income, we should spend according to the same calculation, otherwise a person will have to take a loan and then pay off this loan.
Therefore, the next support system is also damaged, then the whole life of a man is spent in debt. Yes, but when there is a debt on the head of a man, he is suffering from mental tension and then due to all these tensions, the man gets sick and there is a lot of trouble, so it is better that a person has as much money as he has.
One should enjoy and spend on events within them, like now here in our country there are two or three special events that happen within the year. It is very important to make new clothes within these days.
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And all people want is that we meet each other wearing new clothes on top of the events and go for a walk so same thing happened to a friend of mine it was Eid and he didn't have money to spend he used to buy good clothes and live a good life, so he was very worried.
This incident was two years before today, when our friends used to have money, then we thought that we should help him because friendship. I should never give importance to money so all our friends bought him clothes bought shoes and gifted him all those things and when we were gifting him he got very emotional and cried.
It took because he didn't have enough money this time to buy clothes and shoes and if new clothes are not worn on top of this event, people think a lot why this guy didn't wear new clothes, his condition will be bad.
If there are such people then we should help them so that they too can avoid such troubles and people at all. Not having to answer is very difficult at this time.
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If it is a habit in a person, then he can avoid all such things and that is the habit that a person should write down all his expenses of the month or such events in one place and if in the same way he As much as his income is, he will also write down all the other things on a piece of paper or a book, so the benefit will be that he will remember things that I have earned so much money within so many days.
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If I spend more than that then I will face problems later so it is a good habit. The cost is the cost of petrol, the cost of electricity and the cost of all other things and the cost of the guests brought to the house, so it is beneficial that a person does not have to face problems again.
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Borrowing all because we went beyond our budget during the festive season is a very bad thing to do, stay within your budget no matter what.
Similarly, if we do not control the spending of money, we will face problems later.
Whenever my friends invite me to chill out with them, I decline if I know that what I have would not be sufficient. Of a truth, we all earn different, I don't want any situation where I would go out there and embarrass myself. I was just smiling when you said you blew $500 dollars with your friends to have fun, that's a very big amount of money in my place. I am just calculating what I would have done with it if it were mine😂😂
Please don't take such risk again, it's good to have fun but we should always do it with wisdom
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I've found out that a lot of people tend to just spend during the moment and not think about what their actions would cost them tomorrow. I also hate to take loans from people but sometimes we're forced to when we spend foolishly.
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It's just like that now I'm also very careful while spending money.
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