LOH Contest #122: Beauty is a Symbol.

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Beauty is easy.

Naturally, we are humans who act based on what they see and feel rather than the calls of deeper things. We are shallow by nature and that has never been a lie.

The truth is, beauty is easy on the eye. It is easier to classify something when it is beautiful. Humans don't like complicated and that is why you give a man a tool box and tell him, "this is a toolbox" he is grateful and knows what to do with it. Give him a long stick and tell him, "this is a wand" and you earn the stink eye.

It could really be a wand but who believes in fairy tales any more and when did a wand look like a piece of garbage?

We all like things that are easy on the eyes. Why? Because our blood sings when we come across something 'beautiful'. We suddenly become poetic and feel things that we'd normally not feel.

It is easier to love the beast in human form than covered in fur. And I think it is we, not society, who have dictated what is beautiful.

Beauty is experience

Honestly, beauty is not by the surface. But we have all heard that haven't we? Beauty is the deep within the deep, the you we don't see; the green to the emerald. Beauty goes underneath, drowned in scars and battle wounds.

Maybe I am bias as to what true beauty is. I think we have gotten to that point in this generation where we just want to be the best of the best even if it means relinquishing true beauty.

These days, we want a friend who is slender, easy to look at and comes from a pretty nice background. Where I come from, when your friend has all the connections, you're made. Doesn't matter if you're just a lapdog, as long as you get this guy on your side.

And I honestly think that is what it is. Society is all about class. Status. Power. The more we get sucked into society's rule book the more we loose sight of what is truly worth it.

Beauty is opinion

But wait a minute, what if that is just our person? What if we just have a spec? That isn't bad. We are all allowed to have our own opinions as long as we don't try to enforce them on others. Now that is what society tries to do.

It tells you that someone isn't good enough because they aren't from a good home, have the best education or use the latest phone.

Now, I am speaking from my perspective from what I have experienced as a young girl in my country. I am still growing and still learning about life. But I will say that society places a high value on beauty because it is easy to find.

Now, not just physical beauty. Society also wants you to be pure in and out. They want you to bend and break when you should. It's no wonder we have a lot of people rebelling against the moral codes because they don't like to be 'classified' or 'put in a box'.

Why you ask? Beauty is a symbol

I am a huge fan of beauty. I see beauty and I admire it but I also acknowledge that beauty makes me work harder. Because the image I have of me five years from now, is a beautiful one. And no doubt, beauty draws people in.

Like a moth to a flame. People gravitate towards people with a beautiful (successful) life. They want their secrets. And there you have it. Beauty is also a symbol of success.


This is my response to the Ladies of Hive Community Contest #122 question:

Why do you think society places such a high value on beautywhen it serves no functional purpose?

I invite @ambilex41 and @treasuree to answer any of the questions presented by the community!





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Thank you so much Buzzy!

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Hello @deraaa. You've packed lots of wisdom in this response. Everyone looks at the concept in a different light. When you say:

"Give him a long stick and tell him, "this is a wand" and you earn the stink eye."

He certainly give you one to go..or even worse. People in society today don't want to take the time to look deeper and see the possibilities beneath the surface. If you're not satisfactory to to the eyes immediately, then you might as well keep moving. So sad, when you think about it.

Also, this one:

"And I honestly think that is what it is. Society is all about class. Status. Power. The more we get sucked into society's rule book the more we loose sight of what is truly worth it."

That statement is so true. When I think about who defined the essence of beauty. Who were the people who took it upon themselves to force their opinion on the rest of the world about what defines beauty, then keep telling us this until we train our minds to only accept their opinions as truths.

Thank you so much for your response. I truly enjoyed reading your thoughts on this topic.

Take care and have a good start to your week.

!ALIVE

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Thank you so much for your beautiful reply. I'm sorry it took so long to reply. I am really glad I participated and your comment warms my heart.

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Hello @deraaa !
Your article was upvoted by @minnowsupport .
!LADY🌺

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There is definitely truth to all that you have observed. Thank you for sharing!

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Thank you so much. Sorry for replying so late. I am very humbled that you took the time to read. I appreciate you❤️

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I love all your perspective on what beauty is, and your presentation of thoughts are just beautiful.

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Thank you so much. Sorry for the late reply. I really appreciate you ❤️

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Do not worry at all, I know when one is busy comments can get lost on our notification.

How is the radio job thing going?

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It is going. It is just training. I.T for school. Hehehe.

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Oh, okay.
All the best and take care.

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Thanks for the invite, we sure to respond to this

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Definitely beauty is soothing for the eyes and it gives a feel good effect but again as you say looking at beauty is also one's own perspective
!LADY

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Yes it is. I'm sorry for the late reply. I really appreciate you ❤️ for taking the time to read and comment.

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Like a moth to a flame. People gravitate towards people with a beautiful (successful) life.
This is definitely true. It's not something that can be helped. People just tend to get closer involuntarily to people they see beauty from.
Thanks for this wonderful insight @deraaa. You did really well.🥰 !LUV

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Thank you for your beautiful comment. I really appreciate you Jhymi❤️

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Physical beauty always attracts people, in fact, there are apps and various programs that explain the standards of beauty, and the correct and appropriate features to perfection" but, inner beauty is the most valuable and is not so easy to appreciate because in order to perceive it, we must know the person completely to say if he/she is really beautiful or not.

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Yeah. Unfortunately, not everyone wants to take the time to get to know others. I thank you so mych. I'm so sorry for taking so long to reply. I appreciate you taking the time to read. Thank you ❤️

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I love how you approached the topic !LADY D♥️
Beauty is skin deep they say and rightly so.

Maybe I am bias as to what true beauty is.

Not at all, at least the way I see it.

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Thank you so much lady. I really appreciate you. ❤️❤️

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You said it all Weldon, thanks for sharing

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And thanks for taking the time ❤️😊

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