Hello friends,
Happy weekend, first weekend in the year 2025, i am particularly excited about this weekend because I wil be celebrating my second daughers birthday today 5th of January. I'm super excited because of what God has done for us.

This weekend engagement topics is great and i just didnt know the one to pick from since on friday so today i have decided to write on this:

Why do you make a good friend? Explain with examples. Use your own photos.

I don't easily make friends because i don't like people in my space an i hate the fact that they do have other friends so they can easily share my own privacy to their own friends so i like my space i talk, play, smile with everyone around me.
If I'm opportune to have a friend, i stick to one and make sure we become best of ourselves.

I'm a good lady with a good heart, positive vibes and always very happy so the same energy in me i transfer it to my friend thats why i make good friends and i become one too.

Why i make a good friend?

• I make a good friend because I am deeply committed to my friend, i care so much about mu friends so i spend time talking to her on daily basis, most times we are not discussing any meaningful thing, just to make such she is okay and making her smile. For instance, my friend lost her dad and she called crying, i was so heartbroken, i call her everyday consoling her since the distance was far from my reach, i chat her up every single day just to take her mind off it and make her smile again. When it was a week to the burial, i will call her as many times as a carry my phone, my husband was like if i will allow her concerntrate at all, and i will just smile and still call her, most times she will not pick telling me i will off her phone and i will laugh and she knows that i will call till she picks, i was there for her, assisting her with the little i could just to make her know she is worth it and i know she can do more for me. I value my friendship with everything in me.

• Giving: When it comes to giving, i am not only on the receiving side alone because thi my madam can so spoil you with gifts s i make it habit to always reciporate it at all cost. Like last year when she was pregnant, i went to the market got her few babies i could afford and got her wrappers even share the ones i have with her, she wad so so excited and this help strengthen our friendship.This act of giving demonstrates that I am not just a receiver but someone who finds happiness in making others feel special.

• Listening: Listening is what this aunty have thought me and she lacks it so anytime we meet the floor is always open for her to display her talks and all i do is listen till she finishes and ready to go and i will not even have time to share my own stories because she is not a good listener. I listen to her and where necessary i come in and pass my judgment and she knew i will say it so she will just smile and continued, i will still give her my advice and good counsel.

• celebrating and making her be known and seen, I take pride in celebrating my friends especially on her birthday most times when i need her attention. For instance, i posted her on my status requesting her to take me out for sitout since she was not paying attention go me on our private chat anf immediately i did aunty called and we just laugh.
  I introduce her to my parents, siblings, husband colleagues, and other friends i make sure she feels at home whether i am there or not. This makes me unique and a good friend.

• Love: this one is Paramount, i cant make friend with someone i don't love, i love my friends and give them a friendly environment to grown and ecpress themselves properly. I passionately display it at my own small ways like: giving, spending time together, calling, and others.

Lastly, I am dedicated to helping my friend grow, and this aunty have really grown up. I help her grow both personally and professionally. I encourage herto pursue her goals, offer constructive feedback, and celebrate her achievements, whether big or small, i help her prepare for an interview, encouraging them to take up a new hobby, or simply cheering them on, I am always there to support their journey from dust to top or from top to bottom.

There was a time my friend needed money to write her license exams, i was broke and she too didn't have money to pay for her registration and she really needed it to work, we call out to everyone we thought could help but none responded so i have to borrow money from my account gave it to her and she wrote the exams and passed.

Going all out for my friend for good gives me joy.