INTRODUCING THE FIRST DATE ISN’T A BIG DEAL

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Thanks to @galenkp for the interesting topics, in this post I would be sharing why Its not a big deal to ask a guy out on the first date.

In other parts of the world, this could be a trend and something that’s applaudable, but in my country Nigeria its never like that, even if happens it could probably be 3-5% out of 100% doing this, because i think it was part of our upbringing that women don’t Chase men, it’s vice visal. I have seen movies where stuff like that happens and they live happily ever after, but honestly its not reality.

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I’ve heard many people women say that when they be the one to ask a guy out or introduce the first date, then the guy wouldn’t take them seriously, yes some guys are like that, they don’t really value women who go after them and this can make the woman feel less of herself, some ladies shoot their shot and in return get played by the man and also even if it was the man that went for the lady thesame thing could also occur.

In my own opinion, asking a man out on the first date isn’t a big problem tho, its way the man looks at you after you’ve asked him out that should be looked out for, some may love it but some may think the lady is desperate for trying to initiate the first date, literally asking a man out you like is not a bad thing, because the more you delay, the man might not know that the lady likes him and might move to some other lady. If I see someone I like, I might be shy at first but If I see that the person doesn’t understand my green lights then I might as well just shoot my shots and ask him to go on a date.

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