DEALING WITH PERSONALITIES AND CHARACTER (1)

It's always in the nature of man to be either introvertic or extrovertic. One food for a man might turn out to be another man's poison. As human beings in general looks the same physically yet we possesses many differences in common to one another. What is worth appreciating by someone might turn out to be disdainful by another person. So, we are all humans but with differences psychology of judgement, mind and cognitive ability. Due to this it is expected of us to accept people the way they are.

CHANGING SOMEONE'S PERSONALITY
Changing someone's pesonality is one of the most difficult aspect of a human one can change. The more reason for this is due to the fact that personality is mostly inherent and said to be sex-linked. So changing someone's inherent personality will be more like an exercise in futility. So what one can only do is to regulate some certain aspect of one's personality which is said to be undesirable, but this will require a great deal of erseverance on the side of the person that wants to change the other person's personality.

CHANGING SOMEONE'S CHARACTER
Character is said to be our behavioral etiquette. It's an aspect of us that we incorporate due to our background and environmental changes. One good thing about character is the fact that it can either be changed or altered by peaceful means of conflict resolution or military means of conflict resolution. Applying military means at times is required when the bearer is said to be adamant or difficult to change meanwhile the person's charater is said to be undesirable and against the ethics of the community. Applying peaceful means of conflict resolution requires wisdom and calmness in dealing with such a characteristic person. One thing that can be assuring is the fact that the person can change such a character instantly or with time

In all we need to understand the kind of people around us and those we meet on a daily basis. Some persons are just there to make you look like nobody while some are there to humiliate you for no reason. Imagine stepping on someone's toe to discover you were giving a hot slap without being cautioned or notified of your deeds. Some a character will never be worth appreciating. By knowing the kind of people you meet and accepting them the way they are will definitely open the door for you someday to help make them correct their personality and as well, change theit character.

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